You do realize those sites are a vapid vortex of vanity sucking you down into a deep dark hole of depression if you are passed over. Do yourself a favor. Stick to Pornos or find people in real life. Oh, there are several people on this site and whole clubs dedicated to networking. Why else would one join? (I joined to brag, shame, and make great mates to have intellectual discourse with. However, I am weird that way....)