Okay ladies, and gents (I suppose you guys might be able to answer this too :biggrin1 why is it that some men on this site when they start chatting with you and find out that you're a 'real' person (i.e. not on here to pick up men) seem embarrassed by their pics after they begin to chat with you and form friendships? There seems to be a lot of support, chatting and fun on here (as well as some pretty heavy arguments...cough...cough... I mean, discussions ) so why is it assumed that the women on here are looking to hook up? Or is it? What's your experience been so far?