OK, Have you ever had your hair cut from a different person in the hair salon and liked it more than your usual cutter? Then you want to continue going to the other person but feel somehow you are cheating on them? This is an odd thing as you should choose whoever you want but there is that elephant in the room if you dare let this go down. So I have this with the auto service dealer guys. It makes me laugh and step back...but really just laugh. My main guy is a big ol straight man with a delicate ego. He was not there one day and I checked in with another guy named Don. Don and I started chatting...it was a slow afternoon and we had so much in common. Really enjoyed him. So the next time I check the car in I use Don and my regular guy had his nose out of joint. He actually talked to me about it! How do we know each other and was I mad at him? I know they want steady clients and have quotas but it was more than this. His feelings were hurt. I told the Don guy I better check in with the usual guy and he agreed. Now even when I check the car in and Don says hi...the regular guy has this look like "stop doing that." Went through this today at the auto place. Made sure I talked only to the regular guy and shook his hands and told him I appreciate him. When he looked away...Don caught my eye and just winked as if to say, "sorry" How funny is this dynamic of a relationship that is not really that important to me except in the exact moment it is happening. Anyone else experience this feeling of "cheating"