Cheating, paranoia or not?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Ramsey, Dec 29, 2010.

  1. Ramsey

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    How often would you say that when a person gives signs that they are cheating, that it's actually true? Obviously sometimes you are never sure, but what has been the experience of people here?
     
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    Once trust is wrecked, it's very difficult to get back.

    As 98% of most cheaters would rather take a blowtorch to their genitals than discuss it frankly and honestly, I'll suggest you document your suspicions. Once you've achieved a critical mass or something painfully, ridiculously obvious, it's your decision whether or not you think you can get the truth or just pick up and move on.

    On the other hand, you may find that your suspicions just come from distortions in your self-esteem or an anxiety about building a relationship/commitment. Only a careful appraisal of the evidence you've gathered will tell you which is correct.

    Good luck.
     
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