it's nice of you to hang in there for the kids, but you got to think about yourself too. Do you really want to be married to a girl that cheats on you? I have seen a lot of my friends girlfriends cheat over the years and it amazes me how many cheat too. i hate to throw the whole sex under the bus, there are plenty of faithful girls out there, and of course guys cheat too, but i really do think girls cheat more.
Now I have to agree with that one guy who said once a whore always a whore. It's true. Some girls always need sexual attention, and if you leave for a week they will find it with someone else. I've know groups of girls that think cheating is not a big deal and don't understand why they get dumped when they get caught. And again I don't think the problem is with you at all, it's with her. i hate it when the victim gets blamed.
Anyways, i say do what you really want. Don't tough out a terrible marriage for the kids. Divorce really isn't that hard on the kids, plus they'll be excited to have 2 christmas'!
Now I have to agree with that one guy who said once a whore always a whore. It's true. Some girls always need sexual attention, and if you leave for a week they will find it with someone else. I've know groups of girls that think cheating is not a big deal and don't understand why they get dumped when they get caught. And again I don't think the problem is with you at all, it's with her. i hate it when the victim gets blamed.
Anyways, i say do what you really want. Don't tough out a terrible marriage for the kids. Divorce really isn't that hard on the kids, plus they'll be excited to have 2 christmas'!