i hate how some guys think that they're not cheating on their wives if they're getting it on with men. Stop lying to yourselves cheating is cheating no matter if ur fucking a prostitute, another chick , another guy , a tranny. it's still cheating unless u have an arragement with your partner. but in that case ur relationship really is a joke. Sorry but i'm sick of people trying to cover shit up. If u cheat, then say u cheat why lie on an internet forum. If you fuck around alot and ur a man or woman well guess what your a slut. Embrase it, snort it, fuck it just dont deny it. Sick of this bullshit especially from married men/men with gfs. for fuck sakes i get homosex is different but shit its still sex and it's still cheating. just like if ur gf/wife decided to start fucking her mother in law.