If you're married or in a committed relationship, how would you define cheating? -- a strong emotional bond with another person -- having intercourse with another person -- having any kind of sexual activity which involves an orgasm -- having sex without an orgasm -- phone or cyber sex -- cruising around LPSG -- looking at someone else lustfully -- masturbating without your partner If you're straight, is it not cheating if you hook up with someone of your same gender? Have you cheated by your own definition? Has your spouse, or spousal equivalent cheated? Do you feel guilty about it? Did you break up over it -- or do a Hillary Clinton?