- sbat,
actually, it is easy
how hard is it to say no to sex (or anything else) when you're committed? if you can't do that, you're weak and should not be in a relationship
Judging from the statistics...not as easy as throwing out words of condemnation.
Over time people change in unpredictable ways. You love them, but they change, the relationship no longer fulfills the needs of either party, and maybe due to finances or children, divorce is not an option. Unless you have a magic 8 ball that lets you see 30 years into the future, you won't know if you are going to be in that kind of situation.
So again, making judgments about situations you have never experienced...very easy.