Check for "bi"ness?

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One of my russian friends who acts quite macho flirts with gay men (i saw this on 2 occasions). The gay men were quite gay (no benefit of doubt!). He also felt the abs of a gay guy at a party recently. My friend also caught me buying large sized condoms on amazon but he didn't show any interest. We go to the sauna (male/female mixed sauna) together often and he likes it a lot, and claims that he likes it since he is russian.

I am curious if my friend is bi since me and my gf are planning on a 3some.
I have some bi-ness in me but gf doesnt know that and i'd like to keep it that way.

Any thoughts? or how do I check for sure if he is bi (without asking him!).
 
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Have you already asked him to be a part of the 3-way? If so, then you'll find out when he reaches for your cock first or throws his feet in the air for you to fuck him.
Sounds like he may be more gay than bi, but I'm no expert. :redface:
Why do you care? :confused:
 

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I dont want my gf to know that either of us have bi tendencies BUT if he is indeed bi, I'd like to pursue on that.

and hence my question: how do i check if he is bi ?
 

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If a guy flirts with gay men, he's usually a little curious; Straight guys are disgusted by gay sex, the same way gay guys are disgusted by straight sex.

I'm going to go trim my pubes.
 

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If a guy flirts with gay men, he's usually a little curious; Straight guys are disgusted by gay sex, the same way gay guys are disgusted by straight sex.

bruddah, i full on disagree with that statement. i've never been disgusted by gay sex, nor have my other straight friends. and my gay best friend isn't disgusted by straight sex either. it's just not a turn on for him.

i'm a flirty person in general. i'll flirt with peoples without even realizing it. so he might be like me, but i honestly doubt it
 

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One of my russian friends who acts quite macho flirts with gay men (i saw this on 2 occasions). The gay men were quite gay (no benefit of doubt!). He also felt the abs of a gay guy at a party recently. My friend also caught me buying large sized condoms on amazon but he didn't show any interest. We go to the sauna (male/female mixed sauna) together often and he likes it a lot, and claims that he likes it since he is russian.

I am curious if my friend is bi since me and my gf are planning on a 3some.
I have some bi-ness in me but gf doesnt know that and i'd like to keep it that way.

Any thoughts? or how do I check for sure if he is bi (without asking him!).

Sorry if I'm not following but...

...you and your girlfriend are planning on a 3some [MMF] and she doesn't know you're bi curious??
...you're wondering if your mate is curious because you want him to be a part of that MMF plan??

I know from experience that having MMF sex can be a challenge but this sounds like you're really looking for a big challenge with 2/3 of the party!