Well, I've read the thread, I've seen the pictures, and here are my comments!
You're in the "formative years" of your sexual persona right now. If you continue to spend too much time comparing what you feel you haven't got with what you feel others have, you'll be doing yourself a grave disservice. It'll take therapy later to get your confidence level up enough to enjoy yourself and meanwhile, you're missing out on opportunities to learn to use what you've got. You have a nice body, including your package, but more importantly, underlying your concern about its size I think there is a desire to be able to please your partner, and THAT is what I'd suggest you focus your attention on.
As others have said, in a room of 20 people you'll get 30 opinions. The only thing that will ever matter between you and your lover is - are you doing all you can to please them and are they doing all they can to please you?
Nobody on this planet is here to live his or her life for "everyone", including you. Nobody in this group is going to be able to please "everyone", regardless of whatever physical attributes they possess. If you're wise (and lucky), you'll figure out which people you are here for and learn to do all you can to be there with and for them.
In other words, stop obsessing over your reflection in the mirror, and get out there and see how you look reflected in the eyes of the people you care about and those who care about you. I'm pretty sure you'll see a very different picture.
And that's all the advice auntie Deb has today. :wink:
Maybe!
You're in the "formative years" of your sexual persona right now. If you continue to spend too much time comparing what you feel you haven't got with what you feel others have, you'll be doing yourself a grave disservice. It'll take therapy later to get your confidence level up enough to enjoy yourself and meanwhile, you're missing out on opportunities to learn to use what you've got. You have a nice body, including your package, but more importantly, underlying your concern about its size I think there is a desire to be able to please your partner, and THAT is what I'd suggest you focus your attention on.
As others have said, in a room of 20 people you'll get 30 opinions. The only thing that will ever matter between you and your lover is - are you doing all you can to please them and are they doing all they can to please you?
Nobody on this planet is here to live his or her life for "everyone", including you. Nobody in this group is going to be able to please "everyone", regardless of whatever physical attributes they possess. If you're wise (and lucky), you'll figure out which people you are here for and learn to do all you can to be there with and for them.
In other words, stop obsessing over your reflection in the mirror, and get out there and see how you look reflected in the eyes of the people you care about and those who care about you. I'm pretty sure you'll see a very different picture.
And that's all the advice auntie Deb has today. :wink:
Maybe!