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Folks,

I think we are losing sight of the larger issue here. It really isnt about DMW at all. It is more a cautionary tale about the treacherous nature of Internet communication. We need to stop attacking one another and find ways to be more proactive about protecting our personal information and rights to privacy (As far as any of that can really go) We are living in an an amazing yet terrifying time when the information super highway can be seen as an arch enemy waiting to pounce as well as a God send. We all need to take a deep breath and try to be a bit kinder to one another. I know some of us are a bit scared thinking that if it could happen to DMW it could happen to any of us. This is a reality check , we arent as insulated as we thought we were. But to attack one another and then in turn expose other's information on a open board is not the way to do it.
This is what PM's and emails are for guys. Monty did really find this by accident and it took him aback as well that none of us really know who is watching us or discussing our life choices. Jacinto, my sympathies that you can not have the opportunity to enjoy the board without having to worry about insanity but this is a reality for many of us with jobs that bring us in contact with impressionable minds. I am sorry that Dee (who really had nothing to do with it) was pulled into this again with veiled references and that many of our other posters felt they had to throw stones in the process. Please can we call a moratorium on the playground antics? It is the holiday season folks. A time when we should be counting our blessings. Like it or not this place has become a sort of cyber family and we need to use threads like this to enlighten each other of the dangers that are out here, not use it to attack or embarrass. I am here because I have come to rever and enjoy the uniquely intelligent and creative minds here. We have to pull together not tear one another down. End of my rant!

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As I told Kim offline, the reason I posted this was as a warning. A warning to anyone who thinks that what they post here is immune from things. That isn't to say we can't have fun and goof off, but there are always eyes. Who would have thought that somebody would have seen that little obscure thread about a teacher and a student? While I thought that the student/teacher line was getting a little hazy, there was a lot of non-lpsg'ers discussing this topic on another board. We always need to exercize caution in our actions. Period, end of report.
 

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PonyPete said:
hate to break it to ya mr. N but the size of your crotch is already a subject of speculation at school. what can you expect? this is jena, louisiana -- the people round here ain't got nothing better to do than talk about the new guy in town. don't worry about anyone hearing anything from me. anything i read here is priveleged information.



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okay, i've been reading this board for a while now. when i started lurking here was when some troll calling himself extremely-huge was littering the young and hung category with some truly stupid, pointless posts. from the responses calling him down i could tell that this site wasn't a joke. there were guys here who really knew what it meant to be well hung. they understood the ups and downs. mr. n, you were one of them. you were one of the members here whose posts really impressed me. you and several others gave sensible advice that i've been able to use in dealing with the pros and cons of what's hangin between my legs. so you're my teacher. but thanks to this site you were actually my teacher long before you stepped int the classroom. when i saw ENGLISH 4C - INSTRUCTOR: J NUNEZ on my class schedule i freaked. i recognized your name. i had read here on the site that you were going to be teaching english in a central louisiana high school but i had no idea that it would be in my high school. i recognized your face on the first day of class. i knew from my trips here that there were things that i could learn from you that would never be taught in a high school class but was it "appropriate"? i understand why you find the situation awkward. i know things about you that you feel a student shouldn't know about his teacher. i know you're gay. big deal. gay, str8, bi -- it don't bother me none and it ain't my business. i know you used to work as a stripper. so what? you're not going to be taking your clothes off in the classroom so your past ain't a "bad influence" on your students. i even know about your sexual habits. i actually it's kinda cool in a twisted sorta way to know that one of my teachers is a horndog. i know the size of your penis. it's also kinda cool to know that one of my teachers is hung but that i'm a little bit bigger. but i think you're afraid i might talk, right? who would i tell? i'm not going to advertise that i hang at the large penis support group so how could i explain how i know personal info about you? your business is your business. even if i know about it it's still your business. it's not my dirt to spread so you don't have to worry about me blabbing what i read here by and about you at school. besides you're the coolest teacher that old high school ever had so i'm not about to mess up things for you. i don't see a problem with both of us being here. am i just too young and stupid to get it?

it is a topic of discussion. i'm fraid so. seems that last week you went grocery shopping and your equipment wasn't exactly well concealed. one of the girls who's moist'n'tingly over you saw the outline in your pants and the talk began in school. most of the girls and probably some of the guys have kind of a crush on you. you're probably used to that. don't worry, i'm not going to add to the discussion.


mindseye said:
In this post, PonyPete identifies DMW by name (J. Nunez), class (English 4C), and location (Jena, LA). I don't know what motive Pete had for reinforcing the misinformation, but now his character's being called into question.

DoubleMeatWhopper, would you care to explain?
 

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If DMW wishes to explain himself (again), let it be done in a private message.

Otherwise, I think Kim and Monty are dead-on. No matter what differences DMW and I have, I too am concerned that this managed to leak out to some real people in Jena. I pray that school officials don't rouse some sort of inquisition which could get innocent people (including good teachers) confused, shuffled about, worried, or even worse, terminated from their jobs. That's a real risk, I would say, especially even in small town America where teachers and students might be a little more "friendly" or communicative outside of school grounds.

That Letourneau chick was just one in a superfecta of teachers behaving inappropriately.
 

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What you haven't done, Dee, is to take any responsibility for making this an issue in the first place. If not for you, none of this would have happened. NOW can you please just enjoy the board and resign from your self appointed position of stalker and inquisitor? The whole point most of us were trying to make when we pleaded with you to just shut the fuck up is that this WOULD end up affecting him in real life, which is beyond justifyable. Other people only found it online because YOU chose to put it there. Nonetheless, I don't expect you to take responsibility, you never do. You just keep glorifying yourself and castigating anyone who doesn't see your side. I was much happier when you weren't posting.
 

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After spending my good time trying to make a difference why is it that the same old tired shit keeps coming up again and again? Yes, there was a previous disagreement. I dont know how it was resolved, But this is an entirely new thread .We all really do need to stop trying to take up others battles for them or throwing our stupid ass 2 cents worth in where it only makes more problems. This shit is soooooooo soooooooo tired! See now you all have incited me to curse!

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I'm tired of this victimization bullshit, really. It's insufferable.

How pompous of YOU, Jana, to blame this recent development on me. Did I even START this thread? Nope. Monty brought some news to your attention out of concern, not out of malice. And yet, somehow, cosmically, it's my fault. What I DO take accountability and responsibility and even pride for is being able to be secure enough to say things that other people wanted to say, but were too afraid of saying because of people like you. You tend to get really brash, harsh, and profane when people disagree with you. You bring a wrath with you whenever people of your displeasure bring up things that don't conveniently fit into your worldview. You're entitled to do that, just like I'm entitled to feeling unthreatened by your ranting.

Clearly we've got some misunderstandings going on, so I thought I would bold the important shit of the next paragraph.

I simply took Jacinto to task about providing false information to trusting members of this web group for the sake of protecting his privacy. Not that privacy protection is a bad thing -- I wholeheartedly support it -- but I don't think you have to provide false facts in order to protect yourself. You just don't put the information out there in the first place. Period. End of story. You take whatever steps to control information you leak out onto the Web because, as we see here, nothing is absolutely safe.

Furthermore, I have never, ever, EVER published incriminating information about Jacinto. The only mention I made on my blog was of Tulane University. And he's already told us that's where he got his Master's from, right? I just said that the stuff he told us about himself didn't seem to add up, was difficult to track online, and that he wasn't listed on a school web site in which he claimed to coach and to teach!
An "inquisition?" Sweetness, let's not bastardize that word. We're not talking about heresy, and I'm certainly not a stalker. If I "sleuthed" around to figure out Jacinto's precise whereabouts and posted them maliciously on the Web, then I would have crossed the line. But I didn't do that. I just said that I couldn't verify his teaching position at Jena High School.

And now some people in real life Jena, Louisiana are understandably concerned about a teacher and a student who might have been fraternizing in a sexually charged Internet environment. As much as you want to blame me for the real life ramifications of his supposed or alleged behavior, Jana, that shit can get you quickly fired and stripped of credentials. And I'm flabbergasted more than anything that this cat, who seems pretty intelligent along other dimensions, can make such grievious ethical errors without second thought! Even in small town rural America, ethical guidelines are in place to prevent such encounters and to protect people involved.

I'm not responsible for the teachers and their curiosity, concern, etc. in Jena. I didn't even put it out there in the first place. Jacinto willingly done so as did Pete. They intentionally disclosed details about their lives that were traceable on the World Wide Web. Did you hear that? They intentionally disclosed details about their lives. I just claimed that those details were incorrect.

If one of my friends were in a rough ethical situation, I too would feel something bad for him. In your case, it's probably way, way easier to get pissed off at me than to accept the possibility that somewhere down the line, maybe the boy fucked up more than he should and it's caught up with him. I can give you that. However, I'm not going to let you talk to me any which way you please and let you continue to dictate things that I say or do that aren't true. I take blame for questioning his background, but I don't take blame for decisions he made over his own life. No matter of anger is going to refute that.

And that's kinda sad...

A few posts back, you actually went out of your way to give a polite disagreement about something regarding this country being founded on Christian beliefs and what not. That was welcome. It was almost even appreciated. But alas, we're back to this crap. Get your bitching out of your system and maybe get back to me if you've got something more important to say. In the meantime, J., despite differences, I hope you stay out of professional trouble.
 

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I REALLY don't think any of us want the board bogged down in this nonsense again. NONE of us want DMW to lose employment when he is, by all accounts, a great teacher/professor SOMEWHERE.

What we need to take from this thread (besides sides and resentment) is that, as Monty said, everything you type on the internet is searchable and recoverable via the Google-Bots (and bots from other search engines that crawl the web). Hell, Google even keeps a COPY of web pages after they have been taken down.

Lots of us here work in education and in and around students--Proceed with caution.
 

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DeeBlackthorne said:
In the meantime, J., despite differences, I hope you stay out of professional trouble.

For that sentiment, Dee, I thank you. Just for the record, the website in question was known to me, and the LaSalle school board and I have spoken. Without going into details, just know that nothing bad is going to happen.
 

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naughty said:
After spending my good time trying to make a difference why is it that the same old tired shit keeps coming up again and again? Yes, there was a previous disagreement. I dont know how it was resolved, But this is an entirely new thread .We all really do need to stop trying to take up others battles for them or throwing our stupid ass 2 cents worth in where it only makes more problems. This shit is soooooooo soooooooo tired! See now you all have incited me to curse!

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Kimmy-
I've never heard such language come out of your mouth!
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DoubleMeatWhopper said:
Just for the record, the website in question was known to me [...]
Yeah, we all saw your post:


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06-30-2005, 09:54 AM
The mystery has been solved and put to rest at lpsg.org. DoubleMeatWhopper is a teacher and wrestling coach and PonyPete was his student, but NOT in Jena. In fact, not even in LaSalle parish. Exactly in which actual parish was not made known, but I have my suspicions based on chat with DMW. He obviously knows the area. I'd be willing to bet on Catahoula or Winn or possibly Concordia. Anyway PonyPete graduated this year and apparently nothing inappropriate transpired between the two of them. They just happened to both be members of the same online forum. No big deal.
Or at least it reads like a DoubleMeatWhopper post.
 

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madame_zora said:
Dee, keep posting all the novels you want, you just keep exposing yourself for the prick you really are.
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LOL LOL LOL
Madame Z never disappoints.........................:)
 

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Oh, that's right, Jana. When you can't come up with something suitable, intelligent, or thoughtful in response to a comment, you start throwing around insults. Sorry, I forgot who the hell I was dealing with -- my bad. And Caneadea, please, for the love of Jiminy Christmas, don't be an utter and complete girl and start handing out -- what the fuck, bran muffins? -- to cyber-throw at me. You're apparently too buffed a mother fucker to go the wuss route. Now, Jana, I don't like you as far as I could wedge my size 10 shoe in your fang-bearing vagina, but why don't you just respect the fact that DMW and I -- hell must've frozen over -- reached our compromise and that it's time to move on? I know, I know. It's tough. You lost your ammo. You can't passionately defend someone who isn't being attacked. There's no drama, so you gotta start some... dear, dear. It's okay. Just take a deep breath and let your demons go.