The New York group has this figured out. I say we do the following:
1) Everyone who wants in send me a PM with your email. I'll collect them all and make an email list. We can then coordinate a date using email.
2) We'll pick and date and reserve an inexpensive hotel room in a central location (again, we'll use email to figure this out)
3) On that date, we'll all meet at the hotel room and enjoy jerking off, admiring eachother's cocks, and whatever else. Men, women all welcome.