chick with LP bf

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  1. MissRoza

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    hey guys,

    Im Roza, 26.

    i found this forum while googling how to have a good sexlife with my new bf, who's penis is rather big. the first few times we had sex i just took it (ignoring the pain of him hitting my cervix), which afterwards caused me to get very painful cramps, and a visit to the doctor to see if my coil was still in place.. :confused: :eek: not cool!

    hope i can find some good advice on here about what positions etc can work. the last time (after some serious google research) went a lot better, and was actually one of the best times in my life! :smile:

    hoping it will only get better :wink:
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    MissRoza
     
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    you on the top
     
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    Also doggy, but avoid sitting on him, either cowboy or reverse, because that gives deepest upward penetration. Ask him to be slow and gentle. It shouldn't be hurting your cervix anyway, unless he's really slamming into you.
     
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    Welcome. That's actually a common problem...or atleast with my experience. Make sure you're working it in slow, and your either really wet or lubed up real well. You want to just slide right past the cervix and just fucking work it.
     
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    Slide past the... Check out that anatomy again, sir.
     
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    Yeah exactly, dummy. Go around it, not into it. If you drive the tip of your dick into the cervix, its going to fucking hurt them. How do I know? A lot of experience.

    Cheers!
     
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    hey guys, thanks!!
    its been going ok, we're still both a bit scared about hurting me, him more than me i must admit :)

    @bobbydrizzle: i know what you mean, we've noticed its quite easy to go past if you know what youre doing and what youre (not) aiming for. thanks!

    curious to see what this forum has to offer! xx
     
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    welcome aboard hon, have a good time with that LP, you will get used to the size have fun on here !
     
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    Irish, maybe you need to. It's not in the BACK.
     
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    Try anal instead.
     
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    Um... take a look at the posterior fornix.

    Those of us with substantial length can, with care, move past the cervix and into this deeper pocket. Drives 'em crazy if you grind it just right. ;)
     
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    whooo!
    finally, after many weeks, a few days ago he could fully go in without hurting me (actually, with me enjoying A LOT)!! very happy bunny, fully in feels so much better and i didnt like him having to hold back. so yay for patience!
    :D xx
     
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    anal seems to me like it would be worse with an LP dont you think? (im not a big fan anyways, someone tried it once without any lube or proper preperation so :23:)
     
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    Please list height/weight for both you and your bf for more accurate advise ;)
    Also list exact penis size... photos even better :)
     
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    just posted something similar on the sex with a large penis forum.
    glad you and your guy are making it work now!
     
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    we're both about 5'9'', both athletic builds tho my muscles have a little bit of cushioning.
    his penis we've measured recently (what a cool thing to do!), its 8x6. ive asked about pictures but he didnt seem very excited about that idea... is that enough of an answer? if not let me know

    thanks for the link! interesting topic, added my comments on it.

    im happy with not giving up (on his large penis), we never even have to use lube anymore (doesnt mean i dont love it) and im coming more than ever! trying something new every time, so more advice is very welcome :)
     
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    Welcome to the group and embrace that large cock of your bf!
     
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    Nice size! Wow.

    I was mostly being facetious, but in seriousness, it's possible to take 8x6 and bigger up the bum. I could give lessons!

    However, it sounds like you are on a good course now. I suppose that the same sort of regimen that works for anal (patience, lube, desire) works for vaginal intercourse as well. (Can I just say 'pussy'? Otherwise, it's so clinical. :eek:)

    HB
     
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