Child abuse in same-sex union/marriage

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  1. optimum

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    I was curious as to whether or not members had stories or personal experiences related to child abuse in same-sex partnerships/marriages.

    Does it happen often? Seems like it would happen less often than in heterosexual marriages. In effect, I'd also theorize that it's more likely to happen in male/male than female/female.

    No offense meant.
     
  2. mattflanders

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    It also depends on what you mean with abuse. It's not only sexual, there's also emotional and physical abuse.
    I think that with sexual abuse it's often (but not always) the father but with the other kinds it can be both.

    But I don't have any personal experiences to share (thankfully)
     
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    Didn't this get settled already?

    Homosexuality != Pedophilia

    Sheesh.
     
  4. Max Downs

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    why would you want to know about that?
     
  5. SyddyKitty

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    This thread is stupid. Just a person fishing for someone to bash on same-sex unions and adoption/whatever.

    If you want it put straight, child abuse happens most in heterosexual relationships. Know why? It's a much much much more common setup. >_>
     
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    Who asked for a recipe, moron?
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
  8. Principessa

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    My guess is he is trying to perv off others peoples misfortune. :headache:
     
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    Their is more child abuse among heterosexual couples. Esp. by the dads.
     
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    a hating ass bigot.
    Like the women could have naturally been mothers and the men would just beat the kids into submission or something.
    Fuck off!!
    I think gay people do a great job and that hetero adoptions and foster homes have all sorts of abuse stories just like regular hetero parents.
    At least gay couples want a cherish children ya drip!
     
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    I agree.

    To the OP, any information gained here is purely anecdotal. If researching, why not read the public records of civil organizations or your local, county, state, and federal governments? All release child abuse statistics.

    Be prepared to not find much data on same sex unions, tho.
     
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    or it is just not as well known about the harm that mothers do.
     
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    if so thats fucking sick
     
  14. optimum

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    You all are fucking stupid. I've been here for well over a year and post the most normal threads I've seen on this site.

    Much more than half of your dumb shit about curved dicks and pre-cum dribble.

    Give me a break. Try to start an interesting conversation and all of you horned up slack-jawed yokels immediately accuse some ridiculous shit.

    I started a thread on U.S. Troop suicides and didn't get one reply.

    Shows the I.Q. of this forum. Especially when I see a thread like this get half the morons on this website wet: http://www.lpsg.org/76599-can-you-suck-masturbate-guy-2.html#post1263724

    Idiots.
     
  15. Max Downs

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    Actually Max Downs, the entire point of me showing that the troop suicide rate thread had no replies, was to give you an example of a genuinely important topic that got snuffed. I was curious in this matter too, and for some reason, some dumbass (you) got the idea that there was a trolling pervert behind the mask of the topic.

    What the hell could I possibly be getting off to?

    Why don't you go bother the dudes in the "Is my 4 inch penis too small" threads if you're so obsessed with keeping this forum about cocks? I'm sure you'll find plenty to bitch about. Every two goddamned seconds I see some mindless, OCD member accusing someone else of SPH. Give me an example of how I could get horny off of this.

    Now screw off, because if I remember correctly, I get told by jackasses like you to just get out of the thread if I don't like it.
     
  17. Max Downs

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    Come on sport how about a hug and then we can get on posting in the 4 inch cock forums:wink:
     
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    gay adults do not abuse children but are more likely to have been victims from their own childhoods.......an adopted child would be more than likely safer with a gay couple because of this....just my opinion.
     
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    Thank you bottombuddy, there is some anecdotal evidence,amp.
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    ok so i'll say somethin here just because ive had personal experience so right i grew up in foster care from the time i was 4 i lived in 12 diffrent foster homes 3 times i was with lesbians and twice i was with gay men twice when i was with a lesbian couple i was either verbally or physically abused but with the gay couples i wasnt so much as yelled at i got a stern talking to but never yelled at infact when i was 15 i was placed with my last faster fathers and stayed with them till i turned 19 they were great i still consider them my parents
     
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