Childbearing and Large penises

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  1. love2trybig1

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    Ladies,
    Did having children and prepare you to have sex with a large guy or did having sex with a large guy prepare you for childbirth.
     
  2. snoozan

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    First, a large penis is nowhere near the size of even a small child. No preparation in the world except for maybe childbirth classes can prepare you for child birth. I've never known a man to have a 6-10 pound penis.

    I didn't have a vaginal birth, so I can't speak for those that did, but I personally have had no difference in, let's call it "capacity", since I've had my son.
     
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    From a male perspective my experience has been, though not exclusivley. that wome who have delivered natutrally and not induced for the convenience of the physician's buiness plan will have a mor accommod ating and less triuamatic reintroduction to coits. A large penis will stretch vaginal anatomy, but this can cause discomfort. Shortly prior to paturation powerful hormoms are releast sp the vaginal canal can open and deliver without difstress ot trauma. And while it wll never shrink at leas it is copmfortable and hasn't been tampered with by cosmetic surgery. And while the concepts of normal and not normal should possibly aboided at this site it does remain fact that a vagina throgh which has passed at birth a baby to one that has not had this experience.
     
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    Not all births that are induced or are a caesarean section are for the doctor's business plan. I'm not going to argue that the rates of inductions and ceasareans are getting higher, which is alarming. However, my induction was done because I would have died if I had not given birth that way.

    WHAT?!?!?! Have you ever seen a woman give birth vaginally with no pain drugs? Even without induction, tearing and trauma to the vagina and perineum is common.

    I don't think vaginal reconstruction is a routine procedure... The vagina has to shrink back to some degree-- or else even the largest cock would fall right out. I don't think it's ever as tight after you have a vaginal birth, but it's not stretched out to the size of a baby forever.

    [/quote]And while the concepts of normal and not normal should possibly aboided at this site it does remain fact that a vagina throgh which has passed at birth a baby to one that has not had this experience.[/quote]

    Well, I'm officially completely lost at this.
     
  5. Lordpendragon

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    Why do some people forget that during pregnancy the body prepares itself for childbirth as best it can. The vagina etc is not the same at birth as it was at conception. A child's head is about 11 inches in diameter.

    Sex and childbirth have nothing to do with each other, well other than that one can lead to the other :smile:
     
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    I gave birth with no form of pain relief with both times. I didn't scream, cry, shout, swear or try and kill anyone. It really wasn't a big deal for me.

    Your body/hormones are the only thing that can get you ready for childbirth. Having sex with hung guys will not help.

    These hormones released during childbirth are not ever lasting, your body will shrink back to normal eventually, although some women need to put in some work to help with this. I was lucky, I didn't work at it (I'm a lazy cow at times)

    The only way I see childbirth helping with sex with larger guys is mentally, if you believe it has helped, and stretched things a little more and not gone back to how things were, then your probably going to be more relaxed about it which will ease the passage.
     
  7. snoozan

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    You are truly the uber-woman. That's very very cool.

    The only person I've ever watched give birth and not scream bloody murder was my friend who had an epidural AND gave birth to a 2 pound, 10 ounce baby. He just kinda... slid out.

    On the other hand, one of the women I was in labor and delivery with (and had hers right as I went into hard labor) screamed so much and so loud I almost passed out and threw up.
     
  8. Kotchanski

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    I thought the women down the hall from me were being murdered they were making so much noice lol

    My first was 8lb3 and the twins were 5lb8 and 5lb3, so not huge by any means
     
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    Wow Kotchanski, Snoozan is right, you're an uber-woman!!

    My baby was only 6lb 6oz and I cried, shouted, declared "I really can't do this, I want to go home" and vowed to strangle my husband (now ex) with the pipe from the entonox if he dared wander off with it again (he was holding it while I perched on the side of the bed to have an epidural).

    All that after I'd sworn, from the day I found out I was pregnant, that I was mother earth and would be giving birth naturally, aided only by some whale song and candles.

    In my defense though - as I still feel quite shameful at my pathetic display of birthing - my baby was in distress so I had to be hurried on with hormones.

    But back to the question of the OP, there isn't a human penis on the planet that could've prepared me for that!! lol
     
  10. OKFarmer

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    After the tear healed, my wife went back to pretty much the same degree of tightness but with less elasticity due to the scar. Even her idiot of an obgyn swore that childbirth would *fix everything*, but it was wrong.
     
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    Actually, sex (good sex, I presume) and childbirth share a lot in common. Hormones, mostly.

    I orgasmed as my last child came out. It was wonderful.

    Anyway...with regard to large penises: I liked them before kids, but couldn't take the size I can take now. I think birth helped me wrap my mind around how...forgiving my pussy is.
     
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    Before we have sex my girlfriend spends 24 hours in 'warm up'.:rolleyes:

    After that, she takes basketballs and space hoppers like a pro. She said the handles on a space hopper really reach places :biggrin1:

    What I mean is, no penis prepares a woman for childbirth. The cervix is a muscle and it never opens very much until labour. No penis could get through the cervix because the woman would tense automatically from the pain. Therefore the cervix cannot be widened in any way to help prepare for baby dropping.
     
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    Who said anything about the cervix opening up?

    People do realize that there's more to birth than the cervix, don't they? Birth is mental, just like sex. It's not something that just happens to you.
     
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    So wow. Where do I start? I agree, a penis is nowhere near the size of a small child, and none of the well-endowed men I was with had anything to do with preparing me for childbirth. I had a vaginal birth with pain meds, and I did have an episiotomy (a surgical incision through the perineum made to enlarge the vagina and assist childbirth). BUT... that got stitched up when I was done, of course, and being with a well-endowed man doesn't feel any different now than it did before I had my son. I don't think they had anything to do with each other.
     
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    I dont have kids so im only going what i assume. But id say the only connection would be that childbirth stretches all the muslces around and in the vagina which would make taking a larger penis easier. I however dont think having a larger penis before having children would make that much difference as the muscles contract back to their original size after sex.
    It would have to be a pretty huge penis to causse the kind of permanent stretching childbirth does
     
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    Hahah, all of you need to go back and read the threads about big cocks stretching pussies. We have settled this issue before. A vagina will always and forevermore remain at the size of the last object to pass through it. Once a woman has sex with a huge man, she will never be able to feel a normal or small cock, ever.

    I'm still just a little unclear how, after such a wonderful stretching, she keeps tampons (or even subsequent babies) from just falling out.
     
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    Seeing as im female and your male i kinda think youve got your little quote wrong. If a female stays the same size as whatever has been put inside her ie her partner, explain to me why ive had 3 children and a an ex partner with a huge penis.....why am i tighter now than i ever have been...?
     
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    I rather think DC was being sarcastic, and taking the piss out of the people who believe that rubbish.

    Right?
     
  19. rawbone8

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    Oh yes. On that there is no doubt.
    Mind you, I'd never follow a pregnant woman up the stairs without a catcher's mitt... Just in case.:rolleyes:
     
  20. Gisella

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    For sure you are right Denise.

    And the situation that I'm learning is: one average size vagina will acomodate a large penis (8",9") but a large vagina will not acomodate to the tilt an extra large penis (12".. 15"..up if they exist :biggrin1: ) if so it was already on the Guiness book of records...I think..

    There is a fit and a true fit as a glove between vaginas and penis to most sizes ...My personal preferences as an average who can take a 9" to the tilt as a maximum I want... is for as a glove fit as an 8,5"x ?...hope a 7"...but a 6" is good. :tongue:

    I may be an 'average large' by birth, my own....hmmm...:biggrin1: :cool:
     
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