Children that you never knew existed

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by rrkrd, Mar 20, 2010.

  1. rrkrd

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    When I was 15 I had my first sexual experience with a girl, my age at a summer camp. We had slipped outside of the camp grounds,had been drinking and were both extremly horny, tipsy and had unprotected sex The next day camp was over, she went home which was miles away and I never heard from her again until this past month when she did a google search and was able to sort out where I live.
    I was shocked when she wrote to me and told me that I was the dad of an 18 yr old son and that he wanted to meet his biological father.

    She had raised him as a single mother until she married 6 years later and her husband had loved our son as if he were his.She does not want money from me as her husband has been very succesful financially, she only wants our son to meet me if I could find it possible to do so.
    You can imagine how shocked I am having never heard from her all these years since camp. Has anybody been caught by surprise like i have?
     
  2. SouthernGirl

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    Yes. My dad didn't know of my existence till I was 19. I googled his name & found his number & called him. He has bought me 2 cars that I've totaled. He wants to get some DNA done but wants me to pay half (bullshit).
     
  3. lopo2000

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    Wow, what a revelation you had...!

    Well, I think if you're ready then perhaps you could meet the son, because his parents seemed to be okay with it. It might be a good moment to you to see your own blood standing right in front of you... :)

    But, no, I've never had this kind of revelation...
     
  4. dolfette

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    no, neither of my kids caught me by surprise at all.
     
  5. ZOS23xy

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    So far, no surprises. And for a while I was a busy one....
     
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    Why did this girl never tell you that she had your child. I would have felt very cheated out of his/her life. I understand it is not about money, but you were robbed!!! I hope you can meet with your child and form some sort of bond after all this time.


     
  7. dolfette

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    it's pointless getting up in arms. it won't change the past and it might drive a wedge between him and his kid.

    what matters is now.
    there's a kid to get to know.
     
  8. D_Suckleberry Hound

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    that made me laugh out loud
     
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    thanks for an early morning laff dolfette!!
     
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