Ok, before anyone flames me, this question is more for the hopefully one of these days sub-forum entitled, "Ask the Women": What's the deal with women who like being choked (or at the very least have hands wrapped lightly around their throat) while being fucked? This isn't meant to be dismissive in any form or fashion. On the contrary, I actually love doing it. There's something so vulnerable, so dangerous, so soft and so controlling about having so much power to do harm and not. It's an almost instant boner for me. Can anyone explain to me from the female's perspective the attraction?