Thank you for all the answers (and sympathetic curiosities). Being on the receiving end of a choke or strangulation wouldn't be my cup of tea either, but giving it, especially with the added response (so clearly described by the sub-sisters), definitely magnifies my arousal level.
The only time I was asphyxiated during sex was doing 69. We both got carried away and she was grinding a little too hard on my face as she was cumming. I didn't want to pull my face away, an unhappy woman with my dick in her mouth is not something I want to fuck with. I somehow navigated, twisted and pressed down a butt cheek so half a nostril could breathe and I happily sucked and licked away until she finally got off.
Nope, that wasn't fun. I mean the getting off part was, but the asphyxiation was not. I truly am happy that not every aspect of sex needs to be mutual.
Lord, you had to ask this question right before I need to get off for the night.
I figured asking it would get you off, but ... oh, nevermind.
I have experienced this before. Instant peak in my arousal.
Like you, my ex would get completely turned on as well. We'd be merrily fucking and as soon as I reached up to cover her throat, I'd feel her pussy tighten around my cock and moisture start oozing out of her and coating around my shaft.
I am more used to my partner kissing me and pinching my nose during sex so that I cannot breathe. He had always remarked on the increased lubrication this causes.
That slick frothing at the mouth of her cunt was always a dead giveaway. Love it, love it, love it.
I have experienced "choking" a few times but nothing harsh. I have the same reaction.
The first time I discovered this was when my hand reached around my ex's throat to push her chin up and away from me so I could kiss her on the neck. Before my lips even touched her, she was gasping already. It wasn't meant to be a choke, but it soon got to be, once I figured out what was going on.
I'm not sure how to describe it. I feel helpless, though I know I am not because he would have stopped if I wanted. There's something about it, like the situation is out of my control, it just drives me crazy.
Yup, that's a good description.
Not that I'm into it myself, and here's why:
medicinenet.com
Excellent article. It explains a lot as far as the physical proceess of the act is concerned. I'm just as interested in the psychological aspect as well. I guess with David Carridine's death, it pushed the topic more into the limelight. Deseverdly so, too. After just a few months of Jiu Jitsu, I've found an amazing array of methods to choke someone out, and with lack of knowledge, experience or understanding, any of those chokes can be applied accidentally and never fully appreciated until something bad happens.
I love, love, love this. I love it so much that I can cum from the merest hint of someone doing it, without any other sexual stuff involved at all.
Amazing. So, if a guy had one hand on your throat, his other hand on your pelvis with his thumb on your clit, his mouth sucking on your nipple, as he's got his cock inside you, fucking you hard, that would be good?
Actually, picturing it logistically in my head, it would probably be more comfortable for all parties concerned if his hand were cupped over your mouth and nose instead of your throat.
All my FB has to do is put a hand on the back of my neck and . . . He finds it a useful move to use in public :redface:
You've inspired me to do something in public with some of my women friends. Bad, bad naughty things. My wife's not into this stuff, that's ok, it's not a dealbreaker for me, but we have a close knit bunch of friends who like tormenting each other. We're all so close that people watching us "pal around" swear we're a bunch of swingers (and we're not).
Why do I love it? Basically because of this
Glad you liked what I said. Embellish more if you wish, I'm all ears... well, eyes in this case.
only from the other perspective :tongue:. RawDog, would you mind not making me horny EVERY day? Just once in a while would be fine :tongue:
Sorry, can't help it. If I'm not fucking, I'm writing about fucking. If I'm not writing, I'm reading. If I'm not reading, I'm thinking about it. If I'm not thinking about it, I'm asleep... hopefully dreaming about it.
