Choking while being fucked.

[D_Pinkie_Pusstache]

I love it and can orgasm from just the thought of it.

 

[D_Grant Gravymaker]

my gf looooves it as i put an expanding vibrator up her butt and feather her clit

 

[B_crackoff]

My GF loves being choked as well - women are worse than men for kinks!

I never put any real pressure on the front obviously, & it's mainly done in a wholly submissive flat doggie style position, with both hands holding her throat firmly, shifting with each hard stroke, interspersed with some pretty dominant heavy breathed vocal commands, ass slapping & grabbing, pulling her hair, & passionately kissing & breathing on her neck.

I had a friend who liked to use plastic bags (not tied up obviously), & I tried that one face to face standing up, gradually building the time putting it over her face, with my hand over her throat, & boy did she like that!

Thing is, it's bloody hard work! I don't want to have to go to the gym just to do a little light S&M!

Has anyone got any ergonomic tips? I swear if I didn't get tired, she'd never say stop.

We've even tried legal poppers once, but we got so carried away it went flying & ruined the carpet.

RawDog - death by pussy suffocation, is not the same thing. No one is in control of that! But if your partner builds up tension (& you are a possibly a little high - though not them!), then they can succesfully wank or ride you, & choke you so you get a pretty profound all over experience.

It is better if they can tighten their pussy for them to ride you, & if anything hurts while they're choking, it isn't being done right.

Obviously, research it, as death is a risk. Indeed, one of my own cousins managed to die in a way that had all the hallmarks of Michael Hutchence - but it was we believe covered up. Cause of death - strangulation, in a locked room - no one else involved - not suicide - coroner verdict accidental - age 22.

Bloody sad that. I'd forgotten. Still that's the lesson: don't do it on your own.

 

[RawDog]

Thing is, it's bloody hard work! I don't want to have to go to the gym just to do a little light S&M!

Has anyone got any ergonomic tips? I swear if I didn't get tired, she'd never say stop.

I won't do a step-by-step tutorial on how to choke someone, but take about 6 months of Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, you'll easily learn about 7 to 10 easy basic, pain free chokes. There are three types. One cuts off your windpipe, another cuts off the blood supply, and the third is more pain compliance/breaking the neck type of hold. Again, it's dangerously easy to transition between the three and get out of hand and choke someone out/break a neck without even realizing.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Why did this thread have to be resurrected? It gets me way too wet :tongue:

 

[D_Tanya_Hardon]

Sorry, y'all, I didn't read the whole thread. But I DO love some light choking, for the same reason that's already been quoted: "There's something so vulnerable, so dangerous, so soft and so controlling about having so much power to do harm and not." Once, however, a guy did it to me the first time we were ever having sex and I totally freaked out. Basically, I have to trust a man completely that he will let go if I tap out. This guy I did not trust. I mean obviously I trusted him enough to fuck him, but not enough to let him literally have my life in his hands. And he choked hard! So what I love about it, in my own words, is feeling controlled and subservient... though I'm not a sub and I don't want a dom. I'll choke you if you ask me to, and I might slap you across the face because it gives me a rush. Not a switch, either. I guess I'm pretty vanilla with some kink sprinkles.

 

[RawDog]

Why did this thread have to be resurrected? It gets me way too wet :tongue:

Too wet? Is that possible? Isn't that like saying too hard, or too tight, or too much time lost with him inside you, or too many orgasms, or too much chocolate, or too much sex, too deep, too aroused, too satisfied, too much money, too excited, he's too horny, your tastes are too similar to mine, on and on.

I need a cold shower now.

Basically, I have to trust a man completely that he will let go if I tap out.

I loved that statement. The martial artist in me recognizes and appreciates this. Hope you have a martial artist in you.

So what I love about it, in my own words, is feeling controlled and subservient... though I'm not a sub and I don't want a dom. I'll choke you if you ask me to, and I might slap you across the face because it gives me a rush. Not a switch, either. I guess I'm pretty vanilla with some kink sprinkles.

From what I've read from you, it doesn't seem like you're vanilla at all. You just need to let your freak out more often, with people who care, you can trust, and slap around once in a while.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Too wet? Is that possible? Isn't that like saying too hard, or too tight, or too much time lost with him inside you, or too many orgasms, or too much chocolate, or too much sex, too deep, too aroused, too satisfied, too much money, too excited, he's too horny, your tastes are too similar to mine, on and on.

I need a cold shower now.

Most of those things are too much if there's no follow through (not including too much sex and too many orgasms - there's obviously follow through there) :tongue:.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

I was soooooooo close to passing out last night on my last orgasm OMG it was delicious! Actually, I think it's maybe a lil easier to get me there since I'm corseted n can't take in as deep of a breath anyway.

 

[RawDog]

Most of those things are too much if there's no follow through (not including too much sex and too many orgasms - there's obviously follow through there) :tongue:.

Point taken.

Anyone here wear chokers by any chance? I think this whole choking while fucking fascination of mine has something to do with my outright love for a woman wearing a choker.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

Point taken.

Anyone here wear chokers by any chance? I think this whole choking while fucking fascination of mine has something to do with my outright love for a woman wearing a choker.

Yes I do.

 

[RawDog]

Yes I do.

Collar. That's the first word that always comes to mind when I see a woman wearing a choker. It's sort of a mixed signal symbol of submissiveness, pride, a willingness to be owned, sexiness and confidence.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

Collar. That's the first word that always comes to mind when I see a woman wearing a choker. It's sort of a mixed signal symbol of submissiveness, pride, a willingness to be owned, sexiness and confidence.

Well seeing as I'm a collared sub it's quite fitting Master likes it that way.

 

[DasLeezard]

I used to be in a highly abusive relationship, so the idea of being choked does not impart the idea of 'sexy' to me... whatever happens, I sure hope you do have permission every time.

 

[RawDog]

Well seeing as I'm a collared sub it's quite fitting Master likes it that way.

Makes sense.

I used to be in a highly abusive relationship, so the idea of being choked does not impart the idea of 'sexy' to me... whatever happens, I sure hope you do have permission every time.

Permission is an absolute must. My wife hates the idea of being choked as well, so it's one of those absolute no-no's for us.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Permission is an absolute must. My wife hates the idea of being choked as well, so it's one of those absolute no-no's for us.

Yes! Everything needs to be consensual!

 

[Argonaut 1975]

I couldn't go any further than applying light pressure under the jaw. I love her, I don't even want to risk hurting her.

 

[thehighheelsgirl]

I used to be in a highly abusive relationship, so the idea of being choked does not impart the idea of 'sexy' to me... whatever happens, I sure hope you do have permission every time.

I am my Master's property, so he does with me what he pleases.

 

[Cherrylips]

It drives me wild.

 

[Patchos]

It drives me wild.

Sorry but I just read your post in another thread where you said you are a virgin:

http://www.lpsg.org/182628-six-pack-or-horse-hung-6.html#post2968260

Am I misunderstanding something?