Just stumbled on him and on this. My opinion is that if people want to leave their porn past behind, fine. But their work has a shelf life well past their years, and they should expect that it will come up again and again. When it does, take the high and don't engage in back & forth chat/argumentation. That will almost never resolve smooth. Instead, simply say: "I've moved on to a different career. That was brief and made sense for me at the time but no longer. Enjoy the videos but don't expect me to engage in chats about them or to indulge your fantasies, questions, etc. Like I said: I've moved past that & am living in the present and building toward the future." End of story. Ignore and move on.