Christian Domestic Discipline

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a way of making your kinky bdsm lifestyle look respectable.

i think they're just perverts like me but too scared to admit it.

Hey, I like spankings and a little B&D, thank you very much! Plain vanilla all the time is not for me. Okay, so I'm a pervert, but....

if a man tries to spank me outside of sexual play, he better sleep with one eye open. :mad:
 

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Christian Domestic Discipline - Loving Wife Spanking in a Christian Marriage - About CDD

spanking your wife is the christian thing to do!

ok, i have no belief in god...but the sheer perversion appeals to me.

from the FAQ page...


Why does my wife want to be spanked?
Because she needs to feel that you are in charge and because she has been acting in less than a way a proper wife should.

Do I have to spank her to tears?
Yes, by spanking her to tears you are allowing her to fully submit and be humbled for her actions.

Isn't spanking just for kinky play ?
No, it is a great form of behavior modification and attitude adjustment.

Does it need to be on the bare bottom?
Yes, by having her bottom spanked bare will increase the effectiveness of the spanking and help to teach her.

What if it doesn't work, and her behavior continues?
Some problems require more than one discipline, you will need to spank her again.

What instrument should I use?
The best by far is always the hand, it is safer then other things, and besides you always have it with you.

What if I am mad, could I hurt her?
If angry at the time, put her in the corner and take that time to cool down, once you have gotten control of your anger then spank her.

Can't I just listen to her instead ?
No, she has all the girlfriends she need to listen to her, she needs you to be strong and correct her behavior.

I have never spanked her before not even for play. will it hurt her?
If a wife has her bottom bared and is spanked, yes it will hurt, that is the purpose of it, and helps to better her behavior.

Is this something new?
No, couples for generations have been using spankings in a loving way.
just watch any old movies or t.v. shows.

Will I have to always monitor her behavior?
No, after a little while she will become contrite and submit to you as her HOH, have her keep a journal so when needed it can be reviewed.

My dear what is your point?:confused:
 

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This makes me want to puke.

Men who are twisted with control and abuse issues find refuge in religiousity time and time again.

Yep...

I actually left the church because of the sexism and repression there. I had enough issues with sexism outside of that, being the kind of person I was growing up (and still am, to some degree).

I accept BDSM if it is agreed upon by the participants, although it is not my thing. But this seems more like just plain sexism to me. I don't have much of a sense of humor about this stuff (although I try), since I have had the unfortunate experience of growing up going to a sexist and repressive church.
 

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This makes me want to puke.

Men who are twisted with control and abuse issues find refuge in religiousity time and time again.

I agree.

And isn't it sad that there are so many people who willingly let others control and abuse them.

The only people I really pity are the children.
 

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People of many faiths have sex lives like us and different from us. a Heathen lives in a dark and lonely world filled with jealousy and hate for others. Sex of all kinds has been going on for many years. Nothing new.
 

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that site has nothing to do with religion. Someone wants to feel good about their lifestyle.. so.. they put it all together and make up their own world to live in
 

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If you're in a Christian Marriage and your husband gets out of hand I suggest bending him over and doing him with a fucking massive strap on, his sore bottom will be a constant reminder that he has sinned.
 

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If you're in a Christian Marriage and your husband gets out of hand I suggest bending him over and doing him with a fucking massive strap on, his sore bottom will be a constant reminder that he has sinned.
It wouldn't be "Christian" if the woman did something to the man, but it's a really good idea, otherwise. :biggrin1:

I don't see this as abuse. It's not abuse.
 

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I don't see this as abuse. It's not abuse.

Without knowing the condition of the heart of the man or the motive I don't think it can be determined. You probably dont see it as abuse because you would never concede to something such as this at the detriment of yourself. I, on the other hand, lived it and saw it in others. And it is my opinion that these 'Christian' organizations provide breeding grounds for abusive men. Sad thing, the 'Christianity' makes them hone their 'skills' and their abuse become very covert and hard to identify.

Oops, stepping off the soap box.
 

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Q. What is Christian Domestic Discipline?


A. Potential plea bargain for domestic physical abuse on the grounds of religious expression.
Something like that, I'm sure.

or...

a way of making your kinky bdsm lifestyle look respectable.

i think they're just perverts like me but too scared to admit it.
Sweetheart, last time I spanked you, you were screaming "oh god, oh god!" Does that qualify as CDD?
 

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Almost makes me wish I was Christian.

Or that there were more lions. :rolleyes:

NCbear (who's amazed/amused by the constant religiosity of "culture" here in the good old USA, which was also the first major country in the world with a constitutional mandate against having a state religion)
 

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Of course it's abuse, men and women are considered equal in this day and age, for a husband to use his physical strength to reduce his wife to a state of infancy where she has to do what he wants or risk a spanking is mental and physical abuse.
 

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Of course it's abuse, men and women are considered equal in this day and age, for a husband to use his physical strength to reduce his wife to a state of infancy where she has to do what he wants or risk a spanking is mental and physical abuse.
unless she agrees to it.

i'm guessing there will be couples where she didn't agree...but she still has protection under law if she chooses to complain.

but some women like to live that way. *cough* :redface:
feminism is the woman's right to choose, even if that choice seems wrong to others.