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Originally posted by jonb+Sep 26 2005, 11:21 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(jonb &#064; Sep 26 2005, 11:21 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by Bill Clinton@Sep 26 2005, 09:26 AM
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Been a participant and a target...lots of fun&#33;&#33;

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What the Christ...
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A bunch of guys jerking off on you.
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I have a video with a scene of this going on. One guy laying in the center while the rest spew on him. Looks like fun. ;-)
 

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Originally posted by Bill Clinton+Sep 26 2005, 12:26 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Bill Clinton &#064; Sep 26 2005, 12:26 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Mestisamo@Sep 25 2005, 11:18 PM
Been a participant and a target...lots of fun&#33;&#33;

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What the Christ...
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Bill Clinton doesn&#39;t understand a target for one&#39;s spooge? Think: Monica&#39;s dress&#33;
 

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we go a new sldier in the other day and i went to his room to check on him and i walked in on him as he shot his load across his room. he is 18 and hung well. later that night he seesn me in the shower and says wow and i thought i was big. any way i go to get him this mornig to go eat and hes sitting there jackin again so i say what the fuck and pull my out too. we sit there and jack off for about 45 mins and he screams and lets go of one hell of a load that just totally drenches one of his pt shirts and he tells me to top that so i stand up and start to pund my cock really hard the guy freaks out when i spray about 14 shots of cum all over his bath towel. we plan on doing this again and often and when we get home finding an girl to have a 3 way with
 
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Wow, for a soldier on active duty, you have A LOT of extra time on your hands, no pun intended&#33;

I have never done it, nor have any of my friends....and i have some pretty bawdy friends. Also, the gay folk in my life...none of them have done it either. perhaps, like Double Meat Whopper explained, it&#39;s a GEO thing.....i live in the Midwest, which tends to be more conventional and slightly steeped in conservatism, like a big tea cup full of "the appearance of goodness" ala Young Goodman Brown by Hawthorne,....so i guess other areas are more "adventurous" in youth.
 

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Ah, the Midwest. You know, there&#39;s a reason Indians on the Great Plains refer to non-Indians as &#39;cousin-lovers&#39;. *ahem* Anyway, what I&#39;m saying is, you won&#39;t find these kinds of things as much in evangelical families. Instead you&#39;ll find father-daughter sex.
 

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Originally posted by soldierboy10a@Oct 7 2005, 02:41 PM
so i say what the fuck and pull my out too. we sit there and jack off for about 45 mins and he screams and lets go of one hell of a load that just totally drenches one of his pt shirts and he tells me to top that so i stand up and start to pund my cock really hard the guy freaks out when i spray about 14 shots of cum all over his bath towel. we plan on doing this again and often and when we get home finding an girl to have a 3 way with
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Wow, sounds like a scene out of a Dirk Yates flix.......
 

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Originally posted by Alley Blue+Oct 12 2005, 01:58 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Alley Blue &#064; Oct 12 2005, 01:58 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-soldierboy10a@Oct 7 2005, 02:41 PM
so i say what the fuck and pull my out too. we sit there and jack off for about 45 mins and he screams and lets go of one hell of a load that just totally drenches one of his pt shirts and he tells me to top that so i stand up and start to pund my cock really hard the guy freaks out when i spray about 14 shots of cum all over his bath towel. we plan on doing this again and often and when we get home finding an girl to have a 3 way with
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Wow, sounds like a scene out of a Dirk Yates flix.......
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Hmmm. (pulling out credit card) I&#39;ll take one please. ;)

Awhile back, someone posted a link to some movie files called "Military Might". (think that was the name) Very hot shots of two GI Joes beating it. Anybody recall these and where they were/are?
 

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Originally posted by dcwrestlefan+Oct 12 2005, 11:43 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(dcwrestlefan &#064; Oct 12 2005, 11:43 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by Alley Blue@Oct 12 2005, 01:58 PM
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so i say what the fuck and pull my out too.  we sit there and jack off for about 45 mins and he screams and lets go of one hell of a load that just totally drenches one of his pt shirts and he tells me to top that so i stand up and start to pund my cock really hard the guy freaks out when i spray about 14 shots of cum all over his bath towel.  we plan on doing this again and often and when we get home finding an girl to have a 3 way with
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Wow, sounds like a scene out of a Dirk Yates flix.......
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Hmmm. (pulling out credit card) I&#39;ll take one please. ;)

Awhile back, someone posted a link to some movie files called "Military Might". (think that was the name) Very hot shots of two GI Joes beating it. Anybody recall these and where they were/are?
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Try here:
http://www.allamericanmilitary.com/main.html

It may not be what your looking for, but its pretty interesting none the less.

In one of there flix&#39;s, there was this huge, hung dude, who looked like a model. He said he&#39;ll jerkoff, but will do nothing more because he&#39;s totally and thoroughly straight. 2 movies later, he was giving out blowjobs left and right.

Funny what a few more dollars can do to a man.......
 

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Heck yeah&#33;....although not necessarily in a circle. Cirkle jerk is just slang for good old group masturbation and most straight guys do it during those &#39;formative&#39; years. My pals and I sure did. Boy Scout camp, sleepovers, sleepouts, hikes in the woods - you name it. If a group of us were together, under the right conditions, we&#39;d whip &#39;em out.

Originally posted by Micah@Sep 12 2005, 11:57 AM
Oh yea, str8 guys do circle jerks all the time.  Get a group of guys together with egos and they all want to see how their rod compares to the others.  The jerk is only a tool by which they can see others dicks and compare them.
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I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
 

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Originally posted by Car_Ramrod@Oct 14 2005, 06:10 AM

I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
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I believe you are right. I think the many stories suggesting that "everybody" has done it are more like fantasy.

But I wonder if maybe it wasn&#39;t much more common back in the day when kids were more naive about sexual matters. Like, I bet 50 years ago most 12-year-olds had no earthly idea what homosexuality is and might have been more likely to engage in such activities without drawing any such connection. By the time I was 12 we all knew what it was, and the last thing you wanted was for the guys at school to label you as "gay," which suggesting everyone whip out their dicks and stroke them together would be likely to achieve.
 

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Originally posted by Donk+Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Donk &#064; Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Car_Ramrod@Oct 14 2005, 06:10 AM

I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
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I believe you are right. I think the many stories suggesting that "everybody" has done it are more like fantasy.

But I wonder if maybe it wasn&#39;t much more common back in the day when kids were more naive about sexual matters. Like, I bet 50 years ago most 12-year-olds had no earthly idea what homosexuality is and might have been more likely to engage in such activities without drawing any such connection. By the time I was 12 we all knew what it was, and the last thing you wanted was for the guys at school to label you as "gay," which suggesting everyone whip out their dicks and stroke them together would be likely to achieve.
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If various sex surveys are to be believed, then you guys are right, it&#39;s definitely a minority. Maybe significant, but still a minority. Your point is really interesting Donk. Most of those surveys, at least the ones I&#39;ve seen, are from times up through the 70s, maybe 80s. Now that &#39;Gay&#39; is a much more open issue, it would be interesting to know what effect that&#39;s having on young men&#39;s sexuality.
 

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Originally posted by Matthew+Oct 14 2005, 05:34 PM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Matthew &#064; Oct 14 2005, 05:34 PM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by Donk@Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM
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I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
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I believe you are right. I think the many stories suggesting that "everybody" has done it are more like fantasy.

But I wonder if maybe it wasn&#39;t much more common back in the day when kids were more naive about sexual matters. Like, I bet 50 years ago most 12-year-olds had no earthly idea what homosexuality is and might have been more likely to engage in such activities without drawing any such connection. By the time I was 12 we all knew what it was, and the last thing you wanted was for the guys at school to label you as "gay," which suggesting everyone whip out their dicks and stroke them together would be likely to achieve.
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If various sex surveys are to be believed, then you guys are right, it&#39;s definitely a minority. Maybe significant, but still a minority. Your point is really interesting Donk. Most of those surveys, at least the ones I&#39;ve seen, are from times up through the 70s, maybe 80s. Now that &#39;Gay&#39; is a much more open issue, it would be interesting to know what effect that&#39;s having on young men&#39;s sexuality.
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I&#39;ll tell you what it&#39;s doing - it&#39;s making them insecure, brutal, insulting, paranoid and isolated about anything remotely sexual.

Where I live, "Gay" is a huge insult, men are repressed and paranoid about sexuality and even the slightest mention of anything sexually exploratory is labelled "gay" or "sick".

Any wonder I havent told anyone I&#39;m Bi?

If I did, I&#39;d be isolated from people, they&#39;d make constant reference to it, and never really truely accept it.

The most sick thing is that nobody will admit to being homophobic, even though they run around all day and all night calling everything they don&#39;t like or arent comfortable with "Gay" and labelling anyone who deviates from their personal defined norm as "gay" and anyone who challenges this social order of psychotic, paranoid hetrosexuality as "gay".

Here "That&#39;s so gay" doesn&#39;t mean "That isnt hetrosexual" it means "Thats shit".

Seriously.

Ok... calming down... sorry... needed a rant. :rant:

It&#39;s just such a gay situation. :p
 

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Originally posted by cityboy@Sep 12 2005, 07:00 PM
I&#39;m always amazed when I hear about straight guys jacking off together. It just seems like comparing dicks is such a gay thing to do. Then in other conversations the same guys will act like even looking at another guys dick is repulsive. I&#39;m just totally mystified by straight people.
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I agree and disagree. I think it&#39;s not so weird for straight guys to wonder what other guys&#39; dicks look like, how another guy&#39;s masturbation technique compares to his own, etc. After all, otherwise it would be hard to know what&#39;s normal. And a lot of straight guys have to experiment with a guy to confirm that they&#39;re really straight, in the same way that you can&#39;t know if you like broccoli unless you&#39;ve tasted it. I&#39;ve watched gay porn before and didn&#39;t get off on it, so I never got really curious about being with a guy, but everyone takes a different path to one&#39;s orientation.

On the other hand, if a guy is in the habit of participating in circle jerks or fantasizes about them a lot, I don&#39;t see how he could be totally straight. It IS a form of sex with men. At some point you get mature enough and informed enough about your own sexuality that continuing to jerk off with other guys means you have to have at least some bisexual tendencies. Not that that&#39;s bad, but some guys will kid themselves.
 

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I&#39;m straight and took part in circle jerks a couple of times when I was around 14. I wasn&#39;t into the idea at all, thinking exactly what a lot of you guys have mentioned - that this is &#39;gay&#39;. Well, my best friend who was behind the idea told me to imagine that I was being played with by a girl...hmmm, well I wasn&#39;t very convinced, but peer pressure got the best of me (another friend already had his dick out and I was intruiged I must say). Before you knew it I had a friend&#39;s big floppy dick in my face and pushed into my mouth. We all lay on the floor in a circle and began sucking each other. Ridiculous really, but also completely awesome. I guess it was a variation on the circle jerk. Lots of cum. I sucked off my friend with the big dick many times after that and really, really got into it. Haven&#39;t done it since, but would actually like to again. And yes, I am straight - I love women, but at the same time really liked getting my friends off.
 

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Not all guys are psycho like that. I think it can be blamed two myths:

1. The usual gay stereotypes.
2. The idea that you&#39;re either one or the other with nothing in-between.

As Jacinto has told us, if a gay man disproves 1, straight men are less likely to believe 2 too. Which is why the queens never get that straight guy, but the masculine gay guy who doesn&#39;t go out looking specifically for straight guys does.
 

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Originally posted by RoysToy+Sep 15 2005, 04:04 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(RoysToy &#064; Sep 15 2005, 04:04 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by DoubleMeatWhopper@Sep 14 2005, 07:01 AM
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That&#39;s because you&#39;re gay. Remember what I said about irony?
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Being gay doesn&#39;t exclude one from participating in circle jerks. I&#39;ve been in more than a few.
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My question to you is "of those more than a few, do you recall if most eyes were on you and your erection during the proceedings?" With my limited circle jerk experiences the largest dick and hottest stud captured the majority of participants&#39; attention. Thanks.

Luke
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damn, how could yours be the shortest given the stats youve mentioned in the past, unless the others were horses... :toast:
 

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Originally posted by Donk+Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Donk &#064; Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'><!--QuoteBegin-Car_Ramrod@Oct 14 2005, 06:10 AM

I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
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I believe you are right. I think the many stories suggesting that "everybody" has done it are more like fantasy.

But I wonder if maybe it wasn&#39;t much more common back in the day when kids were more naive about sexual matters. Like, I bet 50 years ago most 12-year-olds had no earthly idea what homosexuality is and might have been more likely to engage in such activities without drawing any such connection. By the time I was 12 we all knew what it was, and the last thing you wanted was for the guys at school to label you as "gay," which suggesting everyone whip out their dicks and stroke them together would be likely to achieve.
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I read a book that said exactly that: that circle jerks were much more common prior to, say, the 1950s. This book (can&#39;t remember the title) literally said that before the days of Playboy it was common for young males to get together and tell each other sexy stories (about women) and then masturbate together. But I think it is much more rare now. My mother (yikes; hate to bring my mother into a topic like this) told me that her boyfriend (back in the 1950s) used to attend circle jerks, and he talked openly about it. In fact, this is where I first heard the term "circle jerk."

By the way, I sort of have experience with this. When I was about 11, my friend told me he wanted to "spank his monkey." I had no idea what that meant. Then he sort of explained it to me, and he asked me if I wanted to do it too. We found some cots in a shed by my house, and we lay down on them and just masturbated side by side. We didn&#39;t really look at one another or anything. It wasn&#39;t really like he and I were getting off on one another at all. It was more sort of brotherly and some kind of male bonding. It was like, "This is how you do this cool thing that makes you feel good. I&#39;m going to show you how."

Last I heard, this guy his married (to a woman) and living in Texas, and has children. And I, though I (like all straight men) see beauty in men (or else I wouldn&#39;t be able to see it in myself), primarily view myself as heterosexual. I have no interest in having sex with a man. I&#39;m not in any way "bicurious" or anything.

Later, when I was in my early 20s, some local guys in their late teens (brothers) befriended me. We got to talking about sex and penis size and sexuality. I mentioned what my friend and I used to do when we were young, and the two brothers literally begged me to do it with them. Eventually, I complied. And in this sense it was a circle jerk because the goal was to see who could come first (I did, by the way). And while we were masturbating, I noted how comfortable both guys were jacking off in front of one another, and I asked them if they had done this in front of one another before. They both said yes.

In my experience, this was an incredibly beautiful thing. It was really brotherly in a real sense. By the way, after I did this with the two brothers, I did have trouble looking them in the face, and when I ran into them after it I felt very awkward. I would by no means suggest anyone do this, actually -- unless you are gay and are openly gay, etc. In other words, if you are a self-identified straight guy then doing something like this with another guy you are close to will fuck with your head and possibily put a strain on and end the friendship. It&#39;s an intense form of male bonding, but I don&#39;t know if all guys can handle it. I suppose back in the day before ideas about "gay" were so well known, it was easier. But in today&#39;s age doing something like this opens up the whole pandora&#39;s box about "am I gay? am I bisexual?" etc.
 

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Originally posted by Skinny Guinea+Oct 23 2005, 07:19 AM--><div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Skinny Guinea &#064; Oct 23 2005, 07:19 AM)</div><div class='quotemain'>
Originally posted by Donk@Oct 14 2005, 06:23 AM
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I seriously doubt that most straight guys have participated in a circle jerk. A significant amount, I&#39;m sure, but by no means a majority.

However, I don&#39;t have any statistical evidence to back this up, so you could very well be right (I just highly doubt it for some reason).
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I believe you are right. I think the many stories suggesting that "everybody" has done it are more like fantasy.

But I wonder if maybe it wasn&#39;t much more common back in the day when kids were more naive about sexual matters. Like, I bet 50 years ago most 12-year-olds had no earthly idea what homosexuality is and might have been more likely to engage in such activities without drawing any such connection. By the time I was 12 we all knew what it was, and the last thing you wanted was for the guys at school to label you as "gay," which suggesting everyone whip out their dicks and stroke them together would be likely to achieve.
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By the way, I sort of have experience with this. When I was about 11, my friend told me he wanted to "spank his monkey." I had no idea what that meant. Then he sort of explained it to me, and he asked me if I wanted to do it too. We found some cots in a shed by my house, and we lay down on them and just masturbated side by side. We didn&#39;t really look at one another or anything. It wasn&#39;t really like he and I were getting off on one another at all. It was more sort of brotherly and some kind of male bonding. It was like, "This is how you do this cool thing that makes you feel good. I&#39;m going to show you how."


In my experience, this was an incredibly beautiful thing. It was really brotherly in a real sense........
.....It&#39;s an intense form of male bonding, but I don&#39;t know if all guys can handle it. .
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This experience seems..........metaphysical.
 

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Originally posted by GoneA@Oct 23 2005, 12:26 AM



This experience seems..........metaphysical.
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Um ... at the time, I don&#39;t know if it was. I think that at the time it was just boys being "boys." It was just this kind of bonding. But looking back, yes, it seems to have been metaphysical and beautiful.

I suppose one thing that makes it seem that it was metaphysical and beautiful is that I now realize how rare it is, and that I will most likely never do this again -- because at the point I&#39;m at, being close to another man as he masturbates kind of sickens me. The thought sickens me. But at the point when my friend and I were doing this, it seemed no more "sexual" or "gay" than to stand next to him while he was brushing his teeth. And when I did this with the two brothers, it felt more like a mentoring thing, sort of like, "This is what our bodies do, and our bodies are okay."

It&#39;s such an odd thing to explain. I think it is something like this: it is indeed a sexual act, but it wasn&#39;t directed at one another. It was like, "My body does the same as your body does, and knowing that your body is like mine is helpful for me and makes me realize I&#39;m normal." It wasn&#39;t really, "You&#39;re hot and sexy and I wanna get off on your body&#33;"

The truth of the matter is that there is a closeness that straight men have with one another that I think a lot of gay men can&#39;t understand. With straight men, it is often this idea of merging one&#39;s maleness with the other&#39;s maleness; not an issue of "you are sexy thing that I am turned on by."

So hard to explain. And the truth, of course, is that at some level it is indeed a bit gay, but the truth is that at some level all "straight" men are a bit gay as well. (Myself among them, obviously.)

By the way, I have no real "right" to be on this forum, because I&#39;m only average length. My best friend is 10 inches. At one point (about seven years ago, when I was in my early 20s), I had suggested to him that we should have something akin to a circle jerk, and thank God he said "NO&#33;" That would&#39;ve been the end of our friendship. The reason, by the way, that I suggested this is that my best friend and I spent a lot of time talking about masturbation. He shared with me certain techniques I hadn&#39;t known about, and vice versa (such as stroking the penis all the way to the base; previously, I had only stroked down to the circumcision line on my penis).

My best friend and I never did jack off together, though we do swap a lot of (straight) porn.

Anyone remember that show "The Man Show"? I remember Adam Corrolla and Jimmy Kimmel mentioning that the two of them spent a great deal of time talking about masturbation. Ever listen to Howard Stern and the guys on his show? They talk about it a lot too. In fact, I remember Jackie (former sidekick and joke writer) said that when he was a little boy, he and his friends used to masturbate together.

To be honest, sometimes straight men are so fuckin&#39; gay that I don&#39;t know what the point of labels is. Well, I&#39;ve never (and have no interest in ever) had anal sex, so there&#39;s a difference. But you get what I mean.