Circumcision-pro, con, or it doesn't matter

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Hello ladies. I am curious to your thoughts on circumcision. I've seen all manner of reaction from women when they see I'm uncut. They love it, hate it, or don't care. The ones that don't like it say it's gross and have refused to continue any activities. Why is that acceptable to say? I understand we all have preferences. I have preferences for the type of vagina I like but I'm not going to say one is gross because it's not quite what I'm looking for or ditch the woman for that reason. Vaginas are all different looking but there isn't a dichotomy of vagina looks like there is with cut and uncut penises. Men have to accept the vagina as is. Why aren't there more women that are accepting? Or am I out in left field on this subject?
 

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Hello ladies. I am curious to your thoughts on circumcision. I've seen all manner of reaction from women when they see I'm uncut. They love it, hate it, or don't care. The ones that don't like it say it's gross and have refused to continue any activities. Why is that acceptable to say? I understand we all have preferences. I have preferences for the type of vagina I like but I'm not going to say one is gross because it's not quite what I'm looking for or ditch the woman for that reason. Vaginas are all different looking but there isn't a dichotomy of vagina looks like there is with cut and uncut penises. Men have to accept the vagina as is. Why aren't there more women that are accepting? Or am I out in left field on this subject?

I can't believe women would be so moronic. The natural penis is beautiful. If you take off the foreskin you lose tens of thousands of nerve endings...not to mention you permanently alter the mechanics of sex and masturbation. Cut men need lube...they also tend to ram/thrust harder and deeper and are rougher in general. Once cut men get older it is documented they are likely to start having issues with dependable erections at an earlier age.

Seriously, I am looking forward to being able to have sex with an intact man someday. Unfortunately, in the US my generation is mostly cut. I also look forward to oral on an intact man because there are things you can only do if you have a foreskin. Plus there is a gliding mechanism during sex which is highly beneficial for women.

These women need to read up...hey, maybe you can educate them!
 

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Sounds like your talking about NSA/hook ups? Because if you've developed a relationship with a woman, then by the time she's into you and it becomes a sexual relationship, then she's not going to be bothered one way or the other. As she's into you as a person and not just your dick.

However if it's NSA etc then as she only interested in the sex and your dick, then if ithe dick don't measure up to what she wants and desires, then yep I think it quite acceptable, lol. I'm not into hook ups myself, but if I was then I suppose I'd have a preference for cut.

I don't see why you think women who are just out for sex and nothing else from you, should be as accepting and considerate as they would be with a man they were interested in, for more than just sex. If you want women to be more considerate and not reject your dick, then stop being a dick and develop relationships with women. They are likely to be just mirroring your attitude to them, as in, they hadn't felt any respect from you prior to you dropping your pants, so when you failed to delivery the goods, then piss off. Of course you will think you are a respectful guy etc, but the fact you have had this happen to you quite a few times and they have told you it's gross, then I'd say they were summing up their thoughts on you as a whole, as in you are gross.
 

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I have only been with cut guys until my last guy. It looked strange, bc it was different. Now I'm used to it. It doesn't phase me one way or another.

I think it's easier to give a handjob bc more "slack".
We use condoms so i can't feel anything different during sex.
 

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Hot4Honey in the uk uncut is the norm, and so it's what I was used to and didn't think anything of it. It was only when I was in my 30's and in a relationship with someone who wasn't born in the uk, that I was first introduced to a cut cock.

I like the look much more of a cut cock, especially when it's soft, as it keeps it shape, rather than going all wrinkly. When soft and not covered in foreskin, I can still see the bell end, which is what I like the look of and turns me on. I wouldn't say there was any difference in the feel once inside, so for me it's just a preference on the look.

I have only gone out with 1 other cut guy and again I definitely find it much more attractive to look at, I just like to see the little bell end on display at all times, lol. However, not once while in a relationship with an uncut guy, have I thought anything less of him, than a cut guy. I have never known if he is cut or uncut prior to sleeping with him, the only discussion I would have during the development of our relationship, would be about safe sex and their sexual history.

The only time where size, cut etc for me might pop up, is online dating sites or on here. However, guys on dating sites who immediately make it clear that they are really just looking for sex, by mentioning such things so early on, are deleted straight away.
 

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I am anticircumcision, not just in my preference, but as a genital integrity and human rights stance.
 

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I don't have a strong preference, but I am fascinated by uncircumcised guys, just because you don't seem them very often. I think it makes them quite unique. :)
 

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Awww. My new guy just struggled to tell me he has an intact penis. It was hard for him to get the words out, and he was really afraid I would lose interest in having sex with him, even though I am very emotionally attached to him, very attracted to him, and have made that clear. That should never be the case! Why should men whose dicks have had no weird modifications be afraid of women's responses? Why are lots of women freaked out by normal dicks?
 

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I've seen lots of guys on here ask if women are turned off by 1 way or the other, but I've never seen a guy saying he's actually gotten bad responses because of his circumcision status. I think it's much ado about nothing.
 

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Sounds like your talking about NSA/hook ups? Because if you've developed a relationship with a woman, then by the time she's into you and it becomes a sexual relationship, then she's not going to be bothered one way or the other. As she's into you as a person and not just your dick.

However if it's NSA etc then as she only interested in the sex and your dick, then if ithe dick don't measure up to what she wants and desires, then yep I think it quite acceptable, lol. I'm not into hook ups myself, but if I was then I suppose I'd have a preference for cut.

I don't see why you think women who are just out for sex and nothing else from you, should be as accepting and considerate as they would be with a man they were interested in, for more than just sex. If you want women to be more considerate and not reject your dick, then stop being a dick and develop relationships with women. They are likely to be just mirroring your attitude to them, as in, they hadn't felt any respect from you prior to you dropping your pants, so when you failed to delivery the goods, then piss off. Of course you will think you are a respectful guy etc, but the fact you have had this happen to you quite a few times and they have told you it's gross, then I'd say they were summing up their thoughts on you as a whole, as in you are gross.

This post is kinda terrible, isn't it? Why would they hook up with him if he hadn't treated them with respect? I don't think people who are into casual encounters are so careless.

Wanting sex and nothing more does not give anyone the right to be an inconsiderate jerk.
 

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I've seen lots of guys on here ask if women are turned off by 1 way or the other, but I've never seen a guy saying he's actually gotten bad responses because of his circumcision status. I think it's much ado about nothing.
A lot of American women are really grossed out by a natural dick. My new guy has gotten some negative responses. Mostly, he has been able to talk through it with reluctant women, but he has definitely become nervous. We haven't had sex yet, but he made a point to talk to me about it, eyes full of fear. I brought up the topic of weird sexual things that should be talked over I advance and he jumped on the opportunity. The relief when I responded favorably was palpable.
 

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A lot of American women are really grossed out by a natural dick. My new guy has gotten some negative responses. Mostly, he has been able to talk through it with reluctant women, but he has definitely become nervous. We haven't had sex yet, but he made a point to talk to me about it, eyes full of fear. I brought up the topic of weird sexual things that should be talked over I advance and he jumped on the opportunity. The relief when I responded favorably was palpable.

I wonder if his negative experiences start with his insecure attitude. I have never had a negative response in hundreds of sexual encounters. Perhaps a few girls and women had unexpressed negative feelings at first, but my being proud of the advantages of foreskin (and keeping myself clean, I guess) probably turned that around before they became vocal. Anyway, the reaction to our sex, and to the feeling of my foreskin, has been overwhelmingly positive.
 

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I wonder if his negative experiences start with his insecure attitude. I have never had a negative response in hundreds of sexual encounters. Perhaps a few girls and women had unexpressed negative feelings at first, but my being proud of the advantages of foreskin (and keeping myself clean, I guess) probably turned that around before they became vocal. Anyway, the reaction to our sex, and to the feeling of my foreskin, has been overwhelmingly positive.

You live in a coastal area, where it is pretty cosmopolitan. He does not. I believe him when he says the nervousness came after several negative reactions.
 
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^Exactly, no-one should ever be slammed for expressing a personal opinion. Opinions are to be disagreed with, questioned and compared with other opinions.

Being slammed is another question :), because there are different kinds of slamming. Like being in a slammich etc...
 
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I would rather a circumcised man. Just my preference.

I'm a stickler about cleanliness and wonder how many uncircumcised guys actually pull their foreskin back and clean properly. :shrugs:

I understand completely. I am uncut and take cleanliness very seriously. I retract the foreskin every day in the shower and scrub it clean with soap and water. I have never had any complaints and only compliments. Being hygienic reduces the possibility of odor and also infection. It's unfortunate that so many uncut men do not take the time to properly clean under the foreskin and ruin the reputation of the uncut world. If they don't clean their penises regularly, what other shortcuts do they take when bathing or showering?

And a reminder to those that prefer the appearance of a cut penis... if I fully retract my foreskin, my dick looks much the same, except the head is somewhat more purple in color, and 100 times more sensitive!

I hope any uncut man who reads this and has been dismissive about proper hygiene, start paying attention to keeping his dick squeaky clean. We must change the attitudes towards having a foreskin.
 
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