Are the terms like Bear, Twink, Daddy just gay terms are they terms that apply to straight guys as well. The reason I ask is a friend sent me this note (see below) and I said I would ask around and check on the web to see what is said because I have been under the impression that BEAR applied to all guys that are hairy. "Aren't Daddies & Bears older and hairy men who like to play with each other? Seems any pictures I've seen with a "daddie or bear" label the men are handling each other in a gayful fashion." As for the term Daddy (older guy) and Twink (yonger guy) - Are these solely gay terms.