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hey guys. do you clean yourself out everytime you bottom?
i use a douche only sometimes when i know im going to have sex. with one nighters, its a worry as its unexpected and think it will turn the guy off.
and if your a top, how often are you with a guy who cleans themselves out?
 

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Opinions on this matter are all over the place but I honestly believe (and have been told by medical professionals) that routine douching is not good for you. Maybe once in a while or in a minimally invasive manner but not all of the time.

With that said, I don't bottom often because of it. I don't want to subject myself to constant douching but also don't want things to get messy. If it happened to me as a top I wouldn't hold it against the other person because sometimes you really just can't help that.
 

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I douche before I know I'm going to have sex and the guy is worth my time enough for me not to leave it to chance. In the past, I was adamant about douching each time before I bottomed and as a top, I'd only frequent guys who were considerate enough to douche for me. That part is still true, but as I've progressed through life and matured some I changed my eating habits and don't douche every time now.

Ckguy, what's your diet like? In some unrelated research, I read from multiple sources in multiple countries and cultures that humans didn't have or need toilet paper until refined sugar was introduced. I changed my diet and while I still douche sometimes, I don't have to. I've had spontaneous sex without douching with spotless results. Consistently. The standard American diet is not conducive to this, I've found.
 
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The problem I've had with an enema before sex is that if you don't thoroughly empty out ALL the water, then you could still get an unexpected watery surprise. No fun. Need to make sure you have enough time to get all cleaned out.
 

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Another reason why American showers should have the handheld shower heads there. While living overseas that movable shower head came in very handy. Unscrew the shower head and adjust the water pressure and viola you have a douche right there in the shower. Works perfectly every time. When I bought my place in the US, one of the first things I did was install a flexible shower head.
 

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Not that I have a significant amount of experience from which I can deduce something statistically accurate... But I seem to have been with guys who cleaned themselves out well enough.

From what I've been told, it doesn't take much. One guy told me that all he does is use the bathroom a few hours prior, and then takes a shower afterward. During the shower, he uses his finger to clean out himself out more thoroughly up there. I believe I saw a post on this site, recently, saying the same thing and that doing this in the shower also tends to relax your anal muscles.

Just make sure you don't have any bowel movement during and/or after any of this, and that you haven't eaten any gassy foods (like beans or carbonated beverages) in the past 24 hours. And if you want to clean yourself out well, I would suggest investing in a high-fiber diet... Or taking colon cleanse supplements, if that interests you.

I haven't been with any one who douches, but I know a couple guys who do douche every time they might get together with someone - whether it turns into anal penetration or not.

It's possibly up to personal preference, but apparently just using the bathroom and showering is all it might take. *shrugs*
 
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When I know, when my b/f is wanting to have sex with me, if I know a day or so in advance... I stop eating about 18-24 hrs prior. When I first became gay, I asked a lot of gay bottoms about how best to clean out. I've expanded on the things they told me about and came up with an extended clean out regime on my own. I see my b/f about twice a month. So I don't douche all of the time. Constant douching can also dehydrate you. But you need to be very well cleaned out, in order to enjoy anal sex.
Here's what you can do.... And it's what I do...
You also need to make sure you're is totally cleaned out.Not only does that mean your anal cavity, but your colon as well. I say this, because If he's very well endowed, your Top might be hitting that part of your anatomy. And more than likely he's going to be poking up your colon(if he's very hung). So you need to be extremely cleaned out. That might mean, it will take you at least 2hrs to be totally cleaned out. Once the anal cavity is cleaned out, the next step for you is to pump as much warm water up inside your anal cavity, and your colon. If you're patient, it'll work. Pump at least six bottles of very warm water (using a enema plastic bottle{they can be reused over and over and over}then wait for that water to work up inside you colon). You may have to raise your ass, and wait until you feel that feeling, like you need to expel it. Do that at least three to four more times, and you should be free of debris. I also recommend http://j-lube.net As it lasts a long time, and it's better then most of the expensive stuff on the market, and you can mix it yourself. I hope this helps.
 
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Another reason why American showers should have the handheld shower heads there. While living overseas that movable shower head came in very handy. Unscrew the shower head and adjust the water pressure and viola you have a douche right there in the shower. Works perfectly every time. When I bought my place in the US, one of the first things I did was install a flexible shower head.

Well I' glad I'm not the only one doing it that way :)
 

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I stand by my remarks of below.

When I know, when my b/f is wanting to have sex with me, if I know a day or so in advance... I stop eating about 18-24 hrs prior. When I first became gay, I asked a lot of gay bottoms about how best to clean out. I've expanded on the things they told me about and came up with an extended clean out regime on my own. I see my b/f about twice a month. So I don't douche all of the time. Constant douching can also dehydrate you. But you need to be very well cleaned out, in order to enjoy anal sex.
Here's what you can do.... And it's what I do...
You also need to make sure you're is totally cleaned out.Not only does that mean your anal cavity, but your colon as well. I say this, because If he's very well endowed, your Top might be hitting that part of your anatomy. And more than likely he's going to be poking up your colon(if he's very hung). So you need to be extremely cleaned out. That might mean, it will take you at least 2hrs to be totally cleaned out. Once the anal cavity is cleaned out, the next step for you is to pump as much warm water up inside your anal cavity, and your colon. If you're patient, it'll work. Pump at least six bottles of very warm water (using a enema plastic bottle{they can be reused over and over and over}then wait for that water to work up inside you colon). You may have to raise your ass, and wait until you feel that feeling, like you need to expel it. Do that at least three to four more times, and you should be free of debris. I also recommend http://j-lube.net As it lasts a long time, and it's better then most of the expensive stuff on the market, and you can mix it yourself. I hope this helps.