Cleverly disguised manipulation...

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90% of the men here, I estimate, aren't very high in sexual market value, they're probably crippled with social anxiety and a chronic case of blueballitus, and resort to desperate machinations to squeeze out some semblance of a vicarious thrill from the arid interactions with women on the interweb (especially watch out for the unctuous ass-kissers, yeuuccckk), themselves here for similar ego-balming to soothe the pain.

Naw, I'm just playin, I love you all.
 

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I have gay dudes do that to me via PM, what's the big deal, just don't respond? If they try to convert a 'normal' conversation into netsex, just stop responding as well.
 

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I have gay dudes do that to me via PM, what's the big deal, just don't respond? If they try to convert a 'normal' conversation into netsex, just stop responding as well.

Do these men also spend a lot of time in a regular conversation making you have your guard down only to drop hints that they are stroking it to the advice you are giving them? If they did would it make you feel uncomfortable?

Also, do you chat in the LPSG chatroom? If so, how often? Do you have any idea how many messages you are getting to try to fool you into private talking with these men who are hitting you? How elaborate is the web they weave to pull you in?

Do you know what a whisper message is? It's a message that shows up IN the chatroom like a regular conversation but no one can see it but you...so you have no choice but to read these whisper messages (generally begging you to private message with them) because you can't turn off whispers. So I just don't bother to go in and chat with my friends very often anymore.

I have no issues with someone being turned on by me before someone suggests I shouldn't even try to be attractive if i don't want the attention. What I have issues with is when a guy cleverly disguises his manipulation to get me to watch him jack off or talk to him sexily while he does. My feelings about them is never considered because they think I want to see it because they want to show it to me. It's ridiculous.

This doesn't even go into the "Hey Rouge, look at my cam. I'm not even naked" and I think "Cool this dude might actually not be that type" and 5 minutes later he is asking me which part of his clothing I think he should be taking off first for me.
 
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Do these men also spend a lot of time in a regular conversation making you have your guard down only to drop hints that they are stroking it to the advice you are giving them? If they did would it make you feel uncomfortable?

Yes, surely not as often as it happens to you, I guess, but I don't care. End the convo when that happens and go on my merry way.

Also, do you chat in the LPSG chatroom? If so, how often? Do you have any idea how many messages you are getting to try to fool you into private talking with these men who are hitting you? How elaborate is the web they weave to pull you in?

No, I don't chat there.

I have no issues with someone being turned on by me before someone suggests I shouldn't even try to be attractive if i don't want the attention. What I have issues with is when a guy cleverly disguises his manipulation to get me to watch him jack off or talk to him sexily while he does. My feelings about them is never considered because they think I want to see it because they want to show it to me. It's ridiculous.

This doesn't even go into the "Hey Rouge, look at my cam. I'm not even naked" and I think "Cool this dude might actually not be that type" and 5 minutes later he is asking me which part of his clothing I think he should be taking off first for me.

Sounds to me like you're blowing your issues out of proportion. But whatevs. Carry on.