OK, so lately Ive been having trouble with climax control. Its definitely not to the point of premature ejaculation syndrome, but within about maybe 7-10 minutes of insertion, depending on how the sex is going, it starts becoming difficult for me to hold off (this doesnt include foreplay, and depends on the amount of position-changing). What makes it most difficult is when my girlfriend starts responding very favorably (OMG, fuck me etc., that kind of stuff) that I get the most turned on and start to lose control over it. Shes never complained because on the occasions where I cum before her, Ill finish her off in another way. But it bothers me personally because a lot of times well be in this incredible zone and I want to keep it going but I just cant hold off. Ive tried some of the conventional wisdom you know, the old think-about-baseball trick, etc. Ive also tried to build up my stamina during masturbation getting close to climax and stopping three or four times before finishing. But these techniques have yielded pretty modest results. Sometimes Ill stop in the middle of the sex, take it out and do something else. She likes this b/c of the spontaneity, but Id prefer to be able to also go uninterrupted. I also used some desensitizing lotion on my penis, but my girlfriend complained that it also desensitized her. A condom seems to be the only thing that really makes a difference, but since shes on birth control, neither one of us wants me to wear one. Anybody have any tips or tricks?