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Big changes have been happening in our marriage. My marriage has been open for 10yrs. We have lived a non-traditional marriage until a couple of days ago.
My husband has closed the marriage. He feels insecure about our relationship and wants me to stop seeing my bf of one year. This sucks beyond I can explain, but I'm dealing with it. I know most married people wouldn't understand but as I said, we have been in an open marriage from the beginning. I wouldn't have it any other way in the beginning. Mind you, I didn't start using the open marriage until 2007.
So, all that sucks but that's not what this is about.
My husband is as clingy as white on rice. It is driving me insane. I am and always have been an independent lady. I have always gone out with my friends and he's never had a problem with it. I have NEVER picked up a guy at a bar since we've been married, he knows that. I am out with the girls to dance our asses off.
Now, he's pouting because I have plans for Thursday and Friday evening. I will be going out after my daughter is sleeping so it's not an issue of him not wanting to put her to bed. His insecurities are really driving me nuts. I feel like he's a piece of cling wrap and I'm trying to get away. I really hope he eases up because he is going to drive a huge wedge in between us and I will want to go out even more just to get away from him. I have ended it with bf, and stopped hooking up with my fb's. Isn't this good enough for him? Does he want to spend every waking minute with me???
He's more of a chick than I am. I know this is coming off as whiny, and it is, I know it. Just having a hard time with this.
(This is NOT helping my lack of smoking situation either)
My husband has closed the marriage. He feels insecure about our relationship and wants me to stop seeing my bf of one year. This sucks beyond I can explain, but I'm dealing with it. I know most married people wouldn't understand but as I said, we have been in an open marriage from the beginning. I wouldn't have it any other way in the beginning. Mind you, I didn't start using the open marriage until 2007.
So, all that sucks but that's not what this is about.
My husband is as clingy as white on rice. It is driving me insane. I am and always have been an independent lady. I have always gone out with my friends and he's never had a problem with it. I have NEVER picked up a guy at a bar since we've been married, he knows that. I am out with the girls to dance our asses off.
Now, he's pouting because I have plans for Thursday and Friday evening. I will be going out after my daughter is sleeping so it's not an issue of him not wanting to put her to bed. His insecurities are really driving me nuts. I feel like he's a piece of cling wrap and I'm trying to get away. I really hope he eases up because he is going to drive a huge wedge in between us and I will want to go out even more just to get away from him. I have ended it with bf, and stopped hooking up with my fb's. Isn't this good enough for him? Does he want to spend every waking minute with me???
He's more of a chick than I am. I know this is coming off as whiny, and it is, I know it. Just having a hard time with this.
(This is NOT helping my lack of smoking situation either)