Clitoris Envy

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    My fiancee has confided in me that she is envious of other women who have a larger clitoris.

    is this generally an issue for women (question mark my keyboard is acting weird)
     
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    I think I would only experience envy if I felt like there was something wrong with mine, like I wished it was more sensitive or I had a difficult time orgasming. It has never occurred to me to feel envious over clitoris size.

    In fact, I don't believe I've ever experienced envy over any part of anyone's vagina before I watched porn where very small women could take larger objects than me. That's when I felt envious, and only because of TheBoyfriend, so that was really situation specific.
     
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    She has told me it's a SIZE issue. Not the vagina, labiz, etc. But the actual clitoris.
     
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    my clit is so big....

    how big is it?

    i use my clit as sun dial at the beach :smile:

    for true, i'm happy with my clit - size, form and function.
    if a lady has a lil more, is cool by me.
    variation makes nekkid time more fun
     
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    Nope, not for me.

    If it was super tiny and I didn't have much feeling, I might think that size was related, which is why I brought up the sensitivity part, but the answer is no, clitoral size has never concerned me.

    You know, if a past boyfriend had expressed that he liked large clits, though, then maybe that would make me feel envious.
     
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    Oh...

    I work it in varied ways... But I thought it interesting. We are both functionally bi, and she has apparently seen some larger ones... And been envious.

    It struck me as ironic, considering the envy of penis size and so forth.

    As far as *I* am concerned, she is exquisite and beyond perfect, my perfect female... But i wondered if it was common to wish for a larger clitoris... or a more sensitive one or whatever......

    Tx
     
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    i've never really given any thought to the size of my clit.
    or to compare with other women.

    maybe cuz there isn't that cultural connect of size as a measure of woman's femininity or sexuality. if you watch main stream straight porn the "ideal vagina" is as small and demure as possible.

    the sad flip side, i've heard more of women wanting smaller clits.. enough so there is a medical procedure to "cure" a protruding clit, effectively pinning down the shaft to reduce the appearance of size.

    for me, clit is about feeling very good when handled properly. if larger meant more nerve endings... maybe.
     
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    well all that I know is that she sure wishes it was bigger...yes, just like the male side wishing for a bigger cock.

    so it's uncommon, then....
     
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    maybe just here, in the smallish group of ladies who are frequent posters?

    if you were on a mod modification site, i'm sure you would find heaps of ladies wanting larger clits.

    clit-pumping has gained enough popularity to have gear easily available in adult shops. heck, you can buy a clit-pump on Amazon :smile:
     
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    Clit pumping is about the sensation, not the size, innit?
     
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    Oh, I have one. I've had fun making her sensitive and then using just the barest tip of my tongue to tantalize her to near madness.... WInk....
     
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    All the bitches are jealous of my clit
     
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    LCSG.org
     
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    depends on the style/intensity of pumping?

    folks into body play are going for permanent alteration of the clitoris.
    length and girth. *wonders if they measure bone pressed length*
     
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    Everything I do to it is about the sensation... Wink....
     
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    ya lady friend should so get an account here, Mr. TX.
     
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    You are drunk, aren't you? :rolleyes:
     
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    Cheater.

    A little. So?

    That doesn't make it a lie. I really am too good to be true. Hmph!
     
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    Typing 'wink' at the end of vapid one liners does not make you look too good to be true.

    Sorry if that burst your bubble.
     
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