close friends/family you don't discuss sex with

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  1. B_lrgeggs

    B_lrgeggs New Member

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    Was just wanting to hear from people how they deal with their sex lives with close friends and family. Whan it comes to matter of the heart..I guess I am a pretty closed book. Anyone else?
     
  2. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    oh hell... i could never imagine telling my parents i'm not a virgin. they still believe i'm pure :rofl:

    my siblings and other close relatives, on the other hand, do know i'm not a virgin. my sister and i, of course, talk about sex. however, i don't discuss my sex life amongst relatives that i'm not comfortable talking to regarding the subject.
     
  3. Principessa

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    I was taught that the 3 things a lady never discusses are sex, religion, and politics. I wish more people had been taught this, as I am often privvy to some of the most distasteful opinions and experiences.

    My mother likes to pretend I am still a virgin, I'm sure my father thinks I still am, I am fine with this scenario as I have no desire to discuss my sex life with them. :cool:
     
  4. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    same here! my parents are exactly like your parents. i'm perfectly fine keeping them in the dark about what, i mean, who i do.
     
  5. lvsxy808

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    Friends know everything.

    Family know nothing.*

    And that's how I like it.


    (* except from the general "being gay," that is. they don't need the details.)
     
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    well i can talk to my dadabout that stuff, my older brand sis,..my mom not so much but a funny story....when i was in college....i was at my parents house and they were in the town i was stayin at, so my mom went to clean up som stuff for me, uz i was gonna be moving and she found a 12 pack of condoms with two left in my drawer when she was putting something away....so she pretty much figured out i wasnt a virgin lol.. but non of my sibs really talk to my mom about that she prefers not to know...she still thinks my sis is one ,

    as far as CLOSE friends i talk to them but not in great detail and most of the time only if they ask im not the tyoe to brag
     
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    My dad I can talk to about all that stuff, same with my brother.
    But my sisters and Mom, just feels kinda weird.
     
  8. whatireallywant

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    My parents know I'm not a virgin but I don't talk about that stuff with them. My extended family probably most do think I'm still a virgin and would be preaching hellfire and brimstone at me if they found out otherwise. :mad:

    I have a few close friends who I talk about stuff with but I don't usually tell every detail (unless it's about one of the two assholes I was with and I'm complaining about them. :biggrin1:) But most of the time I'd prefer to keep the "good stuff" private.
     
  9. shyvixen_chicago

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    with family it's just weird, even though i'm pretty close with my sister and brother, it just doesn't sit right with me. i just don't like to associate sex with family matters. i'll talk to a few close friends if there's ever a problem or something, but i'm generally pretty private about that kind of information.

    which is why i thank my lucky stars for websites like this where i can openly discuss these things with perfect strangers. :biggrin1:
     
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    I see no reason to let coworkers and family in on details about my sex life. I would imagine they want to hear about mine as much as I want to hear about theirs...
     
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    I hardly ever tell anyone anything...and never anyone in my family at all...
    I've always been that way...
     
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