(clothed male/naked male) cmnm

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I am experimenting with a new fetish....I am looking to talk to and explore with guys who are into CMNM...I prefer being the NM (naked male)...open to chat experimenting on cam
Also, willing to role reverse for the right guy to be the CM (Clothed Male)...
I am not into Humiliation, Bondage or Submission.
 

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I'd say if it's something you enjoy then go for it. We all have our particular little pleasures.
Thanks....encouraging words.
Haven't had much opportunity to try it out...Hoping there will be guys here at this site that might want to afford me that opportunity :)
 

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Isn't the NM side of this equation submissive by definition?
Only in a ritualized BDSM context. I've always associated male nudity with jocks, locker rooms, etc., and I strongly associate comfort with being naked in front of other guys with manliness. That's part of what makes it thrilling for me to be seen naked by other guys, particularly guys I know as it makes me feel manly to be the naked guy in these situations and to show off that I'm completely at ease with other men seeing my penis.
 

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Only in a ritualized BDSM context. I've always associated male nudity with jocks, locker rooms, etc., and I strongly associate comfort with being naked in front of other guys with manliness. That's part of what makes it thrilling for me to be seen naked by other guys, particularly guys I know as it makes me feel manly to be the naked guy in these situations and to show off that I'm completely at ease with other men seeing my penis.
I would like to chat more if you want to email me here
 

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Only in a ritualized BDSM context. I've always associated male nudity with jocks, locker rooms, etc., and I strongly associate comfort with being naked in front of other guys with manliness. That's part of what makes it thrilling for me to be seen naked by other guys, particularly guys I know as it makes me feel manly to be the naked guy in these situations and to show off that I'm completely at ease with other men seeing my penis.

I agree with you but only when everyone is naked.

As described, the original poster specifically wants to be naked while the other man/men are clothed.

I call that submissive.
 

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I agree with you but only when everyone is naked.

As described, the original poster specifically wants to be naked while the other man/men are clothed.

I call that submissive.
My question is, if they are not abusing nor putting the naked guy in bondage or making demands of him , whatever else others see it as the naked guy being submissive.....but, let's say he just wants attention..he tells them he wants each guy to put their hand on his cock...each one he wants to feel how they stroke him.....so it's more like he has the control....not that they take control of him and his naked body
 

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My question is, if they are not abusing nor putting the naked guy in bondage or making demands of him , whatever else others see it as the naked guy being submissive.....but, let's say he just wants attention..he tells them he wants each guy to put their hand on his cock...each one he wants to feel how they stroke him.....so it's more like he has the control....not that they take control of him and his naked body

You can justify it any way you want. But, being the naked guy in the room is being submissive. :)
 

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You can justify it any way you want. But, being the naked guy in the room is being submissive. :)
I hear you....I don't see it that way but thank you.....I still think I'd like to try it LOL especially on cam at first...no risk for the other guy on cam,,,just me
 
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I can also see it as the NM trying to please the CM. Not in a a submissive way, but using the subtley of his body to arouse the CM. I think the whole premise is super hot.

Trying to please someone is, by definition, being submissive.

I'm not criticizing, just stating a fact.
 

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No reason to beat a dead horse, but I think of submissive as doing what someone demands you to do. You're at someone's mercy. If the NM teases the CM by being naked, in this case the NM is holding all the cards. Just another way of looking at it.
Trying to please someone is, by definition, being submissive.

I'm not criticizing, just stating a fact.