co-worker..

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by tobee, Sep 8, 2010.

  1. tobee

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    Ok...so there's a girl at my work I would really to fuck..thing is she has a boyfriend. Usually I dont do anything towards these feelings. I keep things professional and dont shit where I eat(personal rule) but Im quitting soon and kinda seeing this as an opportunity to bang this girl. Another rule of mine is not to sleep with chicks with boyfriends so I was thinking maybe initiating a threesome with her and her boyfriend in which we would focus on her so that it wouldnt be cheating on her part but I know my dominant side would come through and eventually want more than just share during the session which seems douchey to do if I want them to continue their relationship post-sex with me...Any thoughts? Should I leave her alone and not say anything? I think she would be down to fuck me since she is usually checking me out at work but as I stated before I keep it professional and dont give off signals of interest. I hope this all makes sense and that you guys can offer some advice..I guess Im trying to find a loophole to being with a girl in a relationship without feeling the guilt of a betrayal.
    What if she just wants to cheat on her bf...I guess it would best be me than someone else right?
     
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    Would you be happy if another guy was planning this with your gf? Just ask yourself that one...
     
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    I'd say GROW UP... what makes you think shed want to do anything with you in the first place..... quit thinking with your dick...
     
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    I dont know if she does, just want to know if i should try. Like if somehow he was into it it would be ok, in some twisted way..
    I feel bad to have those feelings. I guessed Im bummed out Im missing in what could be a good sexual experience.
    shit.
     
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    QFT.

    Dude, ... I don't even know how to put this. Have you ever been cheated on? If not, I guess I can see how you could type this crap seriously. How would you feel if you were totally in love with some girl and you guys had an at least-decent relationship, and some other fucking clown was plotting ways to fuck your girlfriend and not have to feel guilty about it?

    I mean, I guess I do have to give you credit for at least considering the fact that it's wrong and admitting that you might actually feel bad... but seriously? You're posting on a public forum looking for moral support to go screw some other guy's girlfriend and not have to feel bad about the fact that you're trying to do what would effectively crudely end most relationships.

    :sucks:
     
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    "What if she just wants to cheat on her bf...I guess it would best be me than someone else right"

    WHAT.. THE... FUCK.
     
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    Is that really the type of girl you want?
     
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    if she would cheat on him she'd cheat on you .. and got to ask your self if she's cheating with you how many times has she done the same thing...... Trust me getting cheated on doesn't feel good if you have been on the other side of this.
    I'd leave her alone .... till she's single then if you want make you move .. women don't usually appreciate co-workers hitting on them and could go sexual harassment if your to crude, brazen about hookin up with her..,... think with your brain instead of just trying to get laid .. go after a single girl ... good luck
     
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    What the hell is wrong with you? Where the fuck do people come up with this shit?! This world of yours where shit like this happens- ARE THERE RIDES?! Is there a fat guy selling funnel cakes?! I hope so. You really want to try to initiate threesome with a female co-worker, so you can go through your loophole, for your own personal rule- I might add, of not sleeping with girls with boyfriends. Really? If you don't get some KY, download some porn, and make it a blockbuster night! Leave that woman alone.
     
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