prmetalman: I too was the subject of gossip over my package at work and for over a year I didn't even know about it. It seems strange to have people talking about your package size, and not know. In retrospect, I should have known by the way I was getting looks, and the sudden silence when I walked into a room, etc., but strange enough, I didn't find out about it (and hence the whole building) until one of the guys at work walked into the room while the female secretarial staff were talking about "Moby." Although I didn't realize it at the time I guess I too was technically being sexually harassed because I didn't think of sexual harassment in that way. But this situation did not come about by "fishing in the company pier" either. Nonetheless, it was a situation that I could look back at as something to laugh over.
Because of my size, for over a year my code name behind my back was "Moby." It started when one day I came into work after a snow storm the previous day in jeans, as most other people do at work when the weather is bad instead of business clothes. I wore a pair of snug fitting jeans that made my package a little more explicit (but nothing too extreme, or at least I thought). On that day I had to give a presentation in the conference room in front of about 30-40 people, and little did I know that some of them were more interested in my crotch than they were with what I had to say. So for a year after that, the talk was about my endowment and my code name behind my back that went something like, "did you get approval from Moby?" Or, "Moby is out of the office." Or something like, "Moby has to sign off on this."
What was strange was the reaction I got from other men when they found out about this. This is when I learned a lot about human sexuality after this incident. While a lot of women, to at least some degree, are intrigued by and desireous of well endowed men; other men, I guess regardless of their sexual orientation, are envious and admiring of men who are well endowed. From the leering looks I got from women, to the slap on the back and "attaboy" I got from other men, society does consider it to be an attribute for a man to have a larger size penis, and to be able to show it in some manner without making them feel uncomfortable.
