Cock-Centric, Self-Confident Showoffs Embrace Their Phallic Power

[Letmeworshipit]

I think I was in college when I finally realized that some of my fraternity brothers got off on walking around in the bare minimum. They were also the ones who were always naked in the bathroom and shower, while other guys wore briefs or wrapped towels around themselves. The truth is, these guys were often beautifully endowed and knew it. They had learned a life lesson that helped them long after college, in the job market, socially and in relationships. It's more than just that overused phrase Big Dick Energy. It's more about the self-confidence they got from embracing the power of their cock and bulge to influence others. And they learned to channel that power to get what they want. I've seen it repeatedly throughout my life with both straight and gay guys. My first partner was a perfect example. I met him at a bar in Manhattan in my 20's. He was a guy magnet. Seriously. He had his type, and that type was his for the picking. And it was all about his cock. That cock had gotten him almost everything he wanted in life to that point and much of his entire persona and self-image were built on it. He used it to introduce himself (literally and figuratively), to open doors, to get ahead...or just to get head (ha!). And in the end, it was his Achilles Heel, as he had forgone developing in other ways emotionally and socially. Why bother when you can use your dick to get whatever you want? I guess my point is that this is called the LPSG. And it seems fitting to note those men who use their cocks in a variety of ways. And I hate to admit it, but I love those guys who understand the phallic power dynamic. They make great sex partners, blow buddies and FWB. Just not always good long-term partners...

 

[chrisrobin]

We had a few like that, always happy to show off their appendages. Plenty of flaunting but never got any action. My favourite was the bull, a nice thick donger with foreskin, recent bush and he seemed to be the one who would push boundaries.
He was a good artist as well but finally gave all that up and joined the police. Because of his looks and "guy appeal," he was put out as bait in local toilets to get men arrested for importuning, one look at his cock and the guys would be drooling.
But then I found him on a gay beach in France, enjoying all that was on offer. Best bit was he remembered me and liked me enough to open my eyes to the possibility of a beach fuck with him, and wow, big, girthy and not a wham bam merchant - and not just one time...
A few weeks later our paths crossed, him in uniform, I got a wink...
Maybe I should have sorted something for the home patch, but would he shit on his own doorstep?

 

[LilJock]

It's not just big cocks that attract others. I found very early on that my good looks and good build attracted people. I've had no trouble picking up girls and have been promoted faster and way above the level my talents, abilities or intelligence merit. Humorously it seems to work on other men, too. Some of the same techniques I use to "seduce" women seem to work on men, even though the goals are different. I've attributed this to my looks and the confidence it gives me. Also, strangely, it seems to work even when they may find out I'm hung like a chipmunk.

 

[Letmeworshipit]

It's not just big cocks that attract others. I found very early on that my good looks and good build attracted people. I've had no trouble picking up girls and have been promoted faster and way above the level my talents, abilities or intelligence merit. Humorously it seems to work on other men, too. Some of the same techniques I use to "seduce" women seem to work on men, even though the goals are different. I've attributed this to my looks and the confidence it gives me. Also, strangely, it seems to work even when they may find out I'm hung like a chipmunk.

Love all the attributes you mention. Love also a great smile and a sense of vulnerability and kindness. But, for me, the litmus test for any ongoing sexual relationship is the cock. If it’s not a full, meaty, highly reactive phalli, it’s friends without benefits for me.