I like to rub her with the head of my dick until she is really wet. Then I will insert for only a inch or so, withdraw and rub my dick head over her again and again. This putting my dick in only a inch or so makes her really wet. I have continued to do this over and over until she has a orgasm, then me inserting into her and having one myself. It feels better for both partners if no condom is used; however, depending on circumstances, please use a condom at all times.