update as well, didn't get the PA piercing
got a REVERSE PA piercing instead, healed up and awsome
Once you have the reverse PA- moving to an apadravya is easy... just slide the lance down thru the hole and all the way out the bottom, transecting the urethra.
Here's an idea I thought would be great... rather than a stud... stretch out the apadravya to that point where you can wear a fairly heavy gauge ring the runs thru the entire head...
It needs to be stretched just enough that when you thrust in, the ring will flip to either the left or right and lie alongside the shaft.
And as you pull out it will flip again to center...
This would prevent hitting the cervix with any steel, as the ring would curve back and away from the cervix on insertions... and the ring changing orientation with each change in direction should stimulate the G spot rather vigorously...