Cock Ring = Shit?

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  1. Incocknito

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    So I bought my first useable cock ring. It's a stretchy silicone one.

    I put it on when soft as apparently you are supposed to do. I looked at myself and just thought it looked stupid. Anyway I got hard(er) and I guess it was veinier but I don't think I got fully hard.

    Then I tried putting the ring around my cock and balls. This felt okay but then I was worried I was damaging myself so I took it off.

    Then I had a sort of dull ache in my testicles, similar I suppose to blue balls.

    Maybe I am missing something or not doing things correctly but cock rings seem pretty shit.

    Should I try putting it on when hard? Anyone else have experiences to share...will it get better with practice?
     
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    I have a metal one which my boyfriend made for me; he works with machinery a lot and whipped it up. I slide it on soft (won't go on when I'm hard) and keep it on for a few hours and it really gets my blood pumping.

    My suggestion is to try different brands, sizes, materials and and see what works. If it doesn't feel right, maybe just don't use one.
     
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    Stay w/it. My cock is 6" in circumference, 2" in width. I use a 2" silicone ring. Put your balls through the ring, one at a time first, then lube yur cock and pull it through while soft. It should feel snug enuf to feel tight at the base. Once you get hard, it'll maintain a truly stiff erection even after you cum...really helpful if you cum first and still want to get your partner to orgasm. I work some weekends as a paid escort and it helps even if I'm turned off by the client, or if I've been really busy.
     
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    Sent an earlier reply, don't know if u received it, think it would have been helpful.
     
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    Meh. I've attached a pic. Still not getting fully hard in it. Seems like I'm not able to for some reason.

    I can get harder without it although it does feel kinda nice/difference. The only difference with a cock ring is the veinyness. Also, sorry but the colours are messed up in the pic.
     

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    How do you take a cock ring off if it keeps you hard?
     
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    I suggest just trying a different kind of ring. I don't really care for the silicone type, but my partner and I have a few different kinds. I particularly like the heavier stainless one. Its rounded, not flat, so it tends to be more comfortable. I'm pretty thick at 6" and it tightens nicely around my cock and balls when I'm hard.
     
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    Dude you're doing it wrong (first time I've said that!)

    It goes under the balls & around the whole cock. You've created a tourniquet. :eek:mfg:
     
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    lol really. I thought only some went around the balls? I've seen some that just go around the cock.

    And they come off by either sliding them off when you go soft or if its one like mine you can just stretch it and pull it off. Still not impressed.

    If I were to get another it would be the strap type that's adjustable. Maybe one with a bullet vibrator on it. But don't see me buying another...it feels to weird and I can't get hard. But that could be because I'm using it wrong :p

    If I am...
     
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    I love my Cock Ring. I dont get the One's like u have and i only put it on my Cock. Not my Ball's. I get the more Heavier Stainless One's...And just cuz u put it on dose not mean u goin to just get a Hard On. If nothing is not goin on then why will u be Hard. They are made for Sex lookin at Porn..etc Not becuz u just put it on. I tell u what put your hand's on your Dick and give it a lil go and see how Fast u get Hard Quiker then Normal
     
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    I tried getting hard with it on. It wouldn't work. I was watching porn and everything but wasn't 100% hard.

    I think its cos its a doughnut type and it covers the base? I normally hold my cock at the base when I wank so I think that's the problem...it feels weird/wrong not to wank with my hand at the base of my penis.
     
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    Not for nothing, but I've never really been impressed with cockrings, either. The overwhelming majority of the time they are just a distracting nuisance with absolutely no discernible benefit.

    I do gotta say, though, that the attached pic doesn't show any cockring I've ever seen anyone actually wear (in porn or IRL); they always go around the base of the cock and around the testicles where they attach to your body. Having one just around the base of the dick just seems especially futile.
     
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    To each it's own i put it only on my dick. Fuck i need something on my ball's for thats just not my style #...
     
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    I agree with athletic guy,There are a shit load of rings out there and you don't have to spend alot. I saay start with a 6snap. That way you cant losen it a bit if you need to.
     
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    a cock ring is like every thing you have to look for the one that's best for you
     
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    use one around the base of cock - used to be round entire package but felt uncomfortable - this type - either silicone or metal works great!
     
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    Love my cock ring, I can get turned on by putting it on and it makes me rock hard. Also I can shoot really far and when I cum like a fire hose the guys love it!
    Great for edging and jacking. I can understand that some guys don't like it but those of us who do find it adds to the enjoyment of sex.
     
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    I love my cock rings! I wear one in some form or another all day every day, partly because it feels awesome, and partly because it turns me into more of a shower than I usually am (it's vain, but I love it). Much like it takes some time to get used to the new sensation of wearing a different cut of shirt or pants than you're used to, it cam take some time to get used to wearing a cock ring even for a short amount of time. Put it on properly, then give yourself a chance to habituate to the new feeling...if it starts to become painful, take it off obviously, but if it's merely uncomfortable, just focus on something else for a while and give your brain a chance to adjust.

    FWIW, I can easily get rock-hard and shoot fairly hard too if I'm turned on enough, so i tend to remove my cock ring for sex and beating off, though sometimes I'll leave it on just to shake things up a bit.
     
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    bro, cockrings are one of the best things man ever invented. I would suggest trying a different kind or something. I sometimes wear my cockring all day long.. wide steel joint around the dick and balls.. it maintains a a semi hardness for most of the day and when fuckin keeps your dick super hard for hours just like when you get a sexy new piece of ass..lol..plus on some guys they just look hot
     
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    I have one that is meant for shaft only. I have had that ache to from using the under the balls one. I didn't find a huge difference wearing it under them aside from uncomfortable swelling and it being difficult to remove. The shaft on I have isn't very elasticy it's rubber soft and flexible but not all that elasticy. I looked to get one as close as i could to my girth size, I find if its to tight it will do similar thing puff it up get it veiny but not hard, and if its to loose obviously it will do nothing. The first one I ever tried that I like was actually just a plumbing O ring. When I asked what the difference was to the under the balls or just shaft ones once at a store it was explained to me the under the balls ones aim to slow ejaculation and the shaft ones aim to stiffen you up or slow down loss of erection.
     
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