i wear a head ring that fits right behind my cock head without falling off some days... the ewight is nice, makes you aware of just how much your cock moves throughout the day. i also wear an "unclipped" hardwear, as SyddyKitty said, and it keeps the boys pulled up and doesnt constrict, so its safe. and as fullyfed said, you are acutely aware of your semis throughout the day.... makes you fell masculine and powerful. its nice. just makes sure it doesnt constrict and that you dont over do it if feel tight at all. BE careful and if your not sure remove it.