My wife and I are considering swinging with another couple. We have had a few friends suggest this and feel it might be right for us. It seems all parties would like a foursome idea, including myself. We talked about all the positives and negatives between ourselves and between the other couples and are quite happy about everything but one issue. This would be the courtesy involved with my size. We don't know for sure but odds are the other guy involved will not be my size, nor will the girl have been with my size. Should we (and how should we) bring this up before hand with the other couple? This could be a no-big-deal or a positive but there is also a good chance that there could be some jealousy or a feeling that we didn't reveal all going in. If you were on the other side of this, how would you feel if the other guy was quite a bit bigger than you? Would you feel better if you knew this before hand? Any women, how would you feel?
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