Cock size and dating...

[AtYourCervix10]

@CassandraX, ever in CA? did you see my pics?

Fairly important, but not top. Only met too short and/or too thin, have yet to meet too big. So far the most perfect cocks for me have been just under 8" length, 6" around, circumsized and perfectly straight. Delicious.

 

[s0hard]

I only see guys who are above 8 inches. I just find a nice big cock to be such a beautiful sight, and since they're a bit more rare, why not make the most of your time with it?

 

[Nosuportneeded]

In talking to a very good female friend about her tindering/dating prospects, she is pretty disappointed if it is small. Less than 5.5x5", I'm guessing are the small ones she talks about. I asked for details and used reference objects, and, in my opinion, she has a good understanding of relative dick size. The girth is the more disappointing metric when smaller.

She is very orgasmic and enjoys and usually orgasms PIV regardless of the size, but she prefers the above average to moderate-large because of the "wholistic" and aesthetic effect. She enjoys the stretch of thick (maybe up to a little over 6") and likes a tiny amount of pain. She does not like being poked hard/deep, (7" or more) but would like how it looked and felt in the mouth and hand.

This is casual dating; looking for an attractive, smart, fun guy, with a little chemistry between them. Lacking the dick dimensions, and skill to wield it, or any of these other non-dick attributes will usually rule them out. She did say she would like to know about the dick first, or very soon as it is important and a very easy thing to determine.

This is ONLY ONE WOMAN (who could be wrong about her preference or change her mind), and it is a second hand narration of our convo. She is not trying to find her soulmate, necessarily, and she, obviously, does not speak for other women. She considers herself somewhat unique in her preference/method.

 

[deleted1025121]

Fairly important, but not top. Only met too short and/or too thin, have yet to meet too big. So far the most perfect cocks for me have been just under 8" length, 6" around, circumsized and perfectly straight. Delicious.

Wow. 8 x 6 is a really rare large cock in my opinion. I suppose most men would love to be that size too...but few live up to that length or girth.

 

[Trott.lint]

@Nosuportneeded I've no reason to doubt your anecdote and in fact know of several such cases myself. I'd certainly be counted out by your lady friend, which is fine with me as, unlike most men, I'm pretty discerning when it comes to women. But this is the part that puzzles me. I know countless single women who'd very much like to be in a relationship if they met the right guy. I can't believe that any of these women would run into a guy they thought was attractive, funny, kind & then say 'nah' because he had 5x5 when they've preferred bigger in the past. Maybe that IS what happens after they fuck - who knows - but I have trouble believing that.

On the other hand there are so many attractive women who can pick and choose from all the dog desperate men that they certainly can be discerning when it comes to dick size. So a guy can tick all the boxes but because he's 5x5, he's history.

Women can be like this because men are in general complete dogs. If most men (and not just the single ones) weren't so desperate to fuck everything that moved, women wouldn't be able to be so discriminatory when it comes to size.

 

[BaronSaber]

In talking to a very good female friend about her tindering/dating prospects, she is pretty disappointed if it is small. Less than 5.5x5", I'm guessing are the small ones she talks about. I asked for details and used reference objects, and, in my opinion, she has a good understanding of relative dick size. The girth is the more disappointing metric when smaller.

She is very orgasmic and enjoys and usually orgasms PIV regardless of the size, but she prefers the above average to moderate-large because of the "wholistic" and aesthetic effect. She enjoys the stretch of thick (maybe up to a little over 6") and likes a tiny amount of pain. She does not like being poked hard/deep, (7" or more) but would like how it looked and felt in the mouth and hand.

This is casual dating; looking for an attractive, smart, fun guy, with a little chemistry between them. Lacking the dick dimensions, and skill to wield it, or any of these other non-dick attributes will usually rule them out. She did say she would like to know about the dick first, or very soon as it is important and a very easy thing to determine.

This is ONLY ONE WOMAN (who could be wrong about her preference or change her mind), and it is a second hand narration of our convo. She is not trying to find her soulmate, necessarily, and she, obviously, does not speak for other women. She considers herself somewhat unique in her preference/method.

Please tell me you fucked her!

 

[nailz]

Sure, a large penis is a very nice bonus, but unlike what most guys on LPSG seem to think penis size is totally a non-factor in selecting a bf. Having a large penis is not going to make women line up and drop their panties for you

As for the gay community, maybe I'm just naive and more sheltered than I think, but there seems to be the "fantasy gay community" that exists in these forums that's all about penis size and public restroom sex and circle jerks and glory holes and public gangbangs and orgies..
..and then the real gay community that is pretty much just as down to earth as the hetero one. None of my gay friends have visited glory holes or had a "train" run on them by strangers in a public restroom orgy like most of the people posting threads here have. They also select partners based on traits such as intelligence, charm, kindness, sense of humor, etc, and not based on penis size or deep throating ability

I realize that this forum is mostly about posting fantasies and sharing porn pics, but sometimes I really worry about the distorted perspective this site is giving those people with social issues, self-confidence/body image issues, and those who have a problem separating fantasy from reality.

 

[blkcocktail]

I think folks tend to hope for a large one, they'll accept an average one, but when you get into the small range- It's best if the guy works harder to excels in other ways...to balance the so-called scale...Like awesome personality, very generous, really good looking, etc. Its almost like at the end of a date, if the main overwhelming resonating theme ur partner takes away from it, was that you have a small dick- Then the outlook's not so good on having a second date.

 

[Sagecucumber]

LOL. Garbage? this is what women tell me. So yes, thank god I'm not a woman. But by your deductions, women are either lying to me, or I'm meeting the wrong women. Even though you admit above in the post that "cock size doesn't matter."

So even though you agree with me, you disagree? Ha. You just proved my point. Hell hath no fury...

I think it was the "meaningful conversation" part she took issue with. lol
Seriously, maybe she mixed your post up with someone else since you and she are basically in agreement.

 

[swimmersox]

Well, being that I'm on this site, you'd be correct that I've got a thing for size.
But honestly, in a relationship context, big is mostly just a fun novelty.
The dick connected to the dick is what matters most.

 

[EllieP]

As I've said before, when I was dating by the time we got to the grand unveiling the size of your weenie was unknown. Had you told me before we had naked time we would have never had naked time.

And that's all I have to say about that.

 

[sammiec3]

i think you should categorize what kind of dating. For women, they don't care about size. They would rather have a guy take them out to dinner, go hiking, go to the farmer's market, go yoga... and then go hiking again.

I can't speak for the gay community, but based on my experience, gay men love huge cocks and based on the websites I've been on, they're the ONLY people who care about size.

Even in the swinger communities, it's the men that want to see their girlfriends or wives with huge cocks.

So if you're a gay guy with a huge cock, you probably have dates 8 days a week. If you're a straight guy with a huge cock, you're shit out of luck -- get into porn, or listen to NPR every weekend and go out to meet girls at wine tastings. and then maybe after you hang out with them for weeks, and drop a lot of money on them, size may then become relevant.

talking to 'at your crevix10', after looking at your pictures, or should i say after drolling, well with a cock like that i have to say you never been turned away for having a small cock, so size was probably not an issue with you,(how many people really say too big?)and you look very cute too, i'd say over all you are very attractive guy. which leads me to this, couldn't one say, in a sense doesn't one's appearance or looks lead to the formation of his personality?couldn't rejection (for whatever reason) lead to one's insecurity? thus ones acceptance and getting many dates lead to ones _____? i dont know, just i never had tons of people jump in bed with me, so understand what i am trying to say?

 

[BIGVICDICK10]

Sure, a large penis is a very nice bonus, but unlike what most guys on LPSG seem to think penis size is totally a non-factor in selecting a bf. Having a large penis is not going to make women line up and drop their panties for you

As for the gay community, maybe I'm just naive and more sheltered than I think, but there seems to be the "fantasy gay community" that exists in these forums that's all about penis size and public restroom sex and circle jerks and glory holes and public gangbangs and orgies..
..and then the real gay community that is pretty much just as down to earth as the hetero one. None of my gay friends have visited glory holes or had a "train" run on them by strangers in a public restroom orgy like most of the people posting threads here have. They also select partners based on traits such as intelligence, charm, kindness, sense of humor, etc, and not based on penis size or deep throating ability

I realize that this forum is mostly about posting fantasies and sharing porn pics, but sometimes I really worry about the distorted perspective this site is giving those people with social issues, self-confidence/body image issues, and those who have a problem separating fantasy from reality.

My reality is in my pants periodView media item 1113385

 

[CassandraX]

@CassandraX What for you is too short and/or too thin, for interest sake?

I've never measured a "too small" one, lol. If I had to guess, any less than 5.5 length OR diameter is a deal breaker, and then you'd have to be an amazing guy otherwise because that's not going to do much of anything for me.

I'm non-monogamous and graysexual with a fairly low libido anyway, so it's not as important for a primary partner, as long as they're cool with not having penetrative sex a whole lot.

 

[CassandraX]

@CassandraX, ever in CA? did you see my pics?

Never in CA, no. Opposite coast.

 

[BIGVICDICK10]

I've never measured a "too small" one, lol. If I had to guess, any less than 5.5 length OR diameter is a deal breaker, and then you'd have to be an amazing guy otherwise because that's not going to do much of anything for me.

I'm non-monogamous and graysexual with a fairly low libido anyway, so it's not as important for a primary partner, as long as they're cool with not having penetrative sex a whole lot.

CA so what, I like your photos...

 

[CassandraX]

CA so what, I like your photos...

Thanks

 

[Nosuportneeded]

@Nosuportneeded I've no reason to doubt your anecdote and in fact know of several such cases myself. I'd certainly be counted out by your lady friend, which is fine with me as, unlike most men, I'm pretty discerning when it comes to women. But this is the part that puzzles me. I know countless single women who'd very much like to be in a relationship if they met the right guy. I can't believe that any of these women would run into a guy they thought was attractive, funny, kind & then say 'nah' because he had 5x5 when they've preferred bigger in the past. Maybe that IS what happens after they fuck - who knows - but I have trouble believing that.

On the other hand there are so many attractive women who can pick and choose from all the dog desperate men that they certainly can be discerning when it comes to dick size. So a guy can tick all the boxes but because he's 5x5, he's history.

Women can be like this because men are in general complete dogs. If most men (and not just the single ones) weren't so desperate to fuck everything that moved, women wouldn't be able to be so discriminatory when it comes to size.

Casual dating, with sex being a large part of the goal. Only one woman's opinion. She is looking for ideal in as many ways as possible, and like you say, is attractive and able to be picky. Only one woman's opinion. Did I mention it is only one woman's opinion?

 

[693987]

I think it was the "meaningful conversation" part she took issue with. lol
Seriously, maybe she mixed your post up with someone else since you and she are basically in agreement.

No, we're not. He continuously says women only want to trap wealthy men into a relationship, go to farmer's markets, do yoga, etc. That's what I take issue with.

The part about the majority of women caring about many other things before dick size is the only part I agreed with.

 

[AtYourCervix10]

i've made repeatedly the same point you're making. however I am ridiculed for it. I couldn't agree more. Hopefully they will at least listen to you and treat you kinder than they do me.

Sure, a large penis is a very nice bonus, but unlike what most guys on LPSG seem to think penis size is totally a non-factor in selecting a bf. Having a large penis is not going to make women line up and drop their panties for you

As for the gay community, maybe I'm just naive and more sheltered than I think, but there seems to be the "fantasy gay community" that exists in these forums that's all about penis size and public restroom sex and circle jerks and glory holes and public gangbangs and orgies..
..and then the real gay community that is pretty much just as down to earth as the hetero one. None of my gay friends have visited glory holes or had a "train" run on them by strangers in a public restroom orgy like most of the people posting threads here have. They also select partners based on traits such as intelligence, charm, kindness, sense of humor, etc, and not based on penis size or deep throating ability

I realize that this forum is mostly about posting fantasies and sharing porn pics, but sometimes I really worry about the distorted perspective this site is giving those people with social issues, self-confidence/body image issues, and those who have a problem separating fantasy from reality.