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There are a number of men from different parts of the world that put as much emphasis on cock size. It seems that the majority of those who do, come from being raised in Western Countries.

I have been a part of discussions about how we conceptionalize sex, where many conclude that sex and attraction starts in the brain. It seems that our life experiences shape and color how we conceptionalize sexual attraction.

Hairy chests, like cock sizes are to a great extent genetic. How we are raised and experience life can be a great influence in how we perceive attraction.

Can we conclude that all men with smaller penises feel any different from men with larger ones? It seems that our environment influences how we internalize perceptions. There are a number of environments that don't give much thought to penis sizes in a number of non-western countries.

Speaking from my own experience, I have a larger penis, but I am actually attracted to a smooth chest and only consider a penis at all in the wholeness of a man's naked body and sensual expression.

Is a man's penis size a Western obcession or a passing fad?

Do men with hairy chests feel any worse about themselves when in the presence of a sexy smooth chest?
 

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All males, no matter the culture, in every period of time have obsessed about penis size.

Men with hairy chest have always been considered more masculine and sexy. It is a sign of higher Testosterone. I did not have hair on my chest until my mid 30s or so. I feel more masculine and sexy with it. When a lady runs her fingers through and plays with the hair is a real turn on for me and obviously for her too.
 
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Even though I have a somewhat hairy chest, I have always seen smooth Asian chests as far more sexy.

I have been with men from a number of cultures that don't obcess over penis size. It seems more so todaybthan the past. I see more and more ads for guys only wanting Asian men. I see a constant increase in Asian men's demand and popularity. I have seen comercials for shaving unsightly chest hair. There are a number of firms that require male models to shave their chest as a requirement to be shown shirtless in their ads.

Another thing to comsider is that there are a number of people like myself that are more or less the female role in the gay relationship that love the romantic nature of a number of Asian cultures. In my situation, it is Filipino men. Thete are also a number of the more masculine guys in a gay relationship that like a more smooth and sexy body.

I have honestly never obcessed over my penis size, but have always had a very strong attraction to smooth chests and especially Filipino men and other Asians.

I am just not sure if hairy chests make one feel more masculine or more untidy about our bodies. Sensuality is another variable. It seems that more guys are discovering the benifits of that and perhaps that is another reason why Asian guys are becoming more popular than others?
 
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Even though I have a somewhat hairy chest, I have always seen smooth Asian chests as far more sexy.

I have been with men from a number of cultures that don't obcess over penis size. It seems more so todaybthan the past. I see more and more ads for guys only wanting Asian men. I see a constant increase in Asian men's demand and popularity. I have seen comercials for shaving unsightly chest hair. There are a number of firms that require male models to shave their chest as a requirement to be shown shirtless in their ads.

Another thing to comsider is that there are a number of people like myself that are more or less the female role in the gay relationship that love the romantic nature of a number of Asian cultures. In my situation, it is Filipino men. Thete are also a number of the more masculine guys in a gay relationship that like a more smooth and sexy body.

I have honestly never obcessed over my penis size, but have always had a very strong attraction to smooth chests and especially Filipino men and other Asians.

I am just not sure if hairy chests make one feel more masculine or more untidy about our bodies. Sensuality is another variable. It seems that more guys are discovering the benifits of that and perhaps that is another reason why Asian guys are becoming more popular than others?


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Quoting my partner, he gives "no fucks about what chest hair a person has (or doesn't have). It's not even something he thinks about."
 

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All males, no matter the culture, in every period of time have obsessed about penis size.

Men with hairy chest have always been considered more masculine and sexy. It is a sign of higher Testosterone. I did not have hair on my chest until my mid 30s or so. I feel more masculine and sexy with it. When a lady runs her fingers through and plays with the hair is a real turn on for me and obviously for her too.

You make some pretty broad and inaccurate claims.
Going back to ancient Greeks, smaller penises were considered more "civilized" and larger ones were associated with brutes and man/animal creatures like satyrs. That's why Greek art up through Renaissance art that it influenced show men with smaller penises. (Think of Michelangelo's David).

Hair also had societal implications through history. As long ago as ancient Egypt, the royalty and upper class removed all hair (head and body) while slaves are depicted as hairy and bearded.

End of history lecture.
 
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We are so similar from different body types. I like smooth and you like hairy. Hahaha
 

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I'm 6'3", well-built, hairy-chested, good-looking, and hung like a chipmunk. I leave my collar unbuttoned and wear shorts to show off my hairy and muscular chest and legs. I don't believe there's any relationship between chest and body hair and cock size, but I suppose I feel it compensates in some way for my small dick.

I know, however, it's not everyone's thing. I'd just dated this really cute chick. She'd confided about me with a mutual friend. She said I was really hunky, BUT. . . "Okay, here it comes," I thought, "BUT he's got a small dick." Imagine my surprise when instead of that she complained I was too hairy! You never know.
 
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Interesting choice on her part. There is so much dysfunctionality in the West. Perhaps she would be happier with someone more "compatible"??

As a gay man (speaking strictly from my own experiences), I am personally not attracted to dick size. I like a smooth chest (regardless of body type) and I like a simple man, not arroagnt. I am the more femmy side of a gay relationship, so masculinity attractiveness for me (calm and confident voice, humble tone and sharing) is likely to have a different meaning for a woman in a straight relationship than it does for me.

For me, any man's cock is the least attractive part of his body. I like smooth chest and a romantic dancer, who is very sensual. I can see him totally naked (including his penis), but my focus is on the sensual wholeness of his body, not zooming in on his cock.

I hate having a hairy chest, but some men made me promise not to shave it anymore.

I can't really advise on hetero relationship, but I can share what I believe is attractive.
 
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I'm naturally smooth, so I've always been somewhat fascinated by men with hairy chests. But many of my friends who are hairy actually hate it and wish they were smooth.

Apparently we men are pathologically unhappy.

I can identify with how your friends feel about their hairy chests. I don't like hair on my chest either. I keep it hairy for guys that I like that are smooth and sexy.

I can also appreciate your feelings, that compliment attraction from opposite interests.
I don't believe that I am unhappy, but if not for Filipino and other Asian men, I would likely be unhappy.
 
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All males, no matter the culture, in every period of time have obsessed about penis size.

Men with hairy chest have always been considered more masculine and sexy. It is a sign of higher Testosterone. I did not have hair on my chest until my mid 30s or so. I feel more masculine and sexy with it. When a lady runs her fingers through and plays with the hair is a real turn on for me and obviously for her too.

As a gay man (the femmy side of relationship), I like to be discovered by men that I am attracted to. I don't believe that Asian coultures were as obcessed about penis size as others. Asia has some of the oldest and most time-earmed and respected cultures.

I don't personally aspire toward masculinity, but any man I am with is more focused on dance, romance and love making. They are almost always Filipino men. They are so increadibly sexy, I can almost cum without touching my cock.

I endeavor to make a man feel appreciated, loved, connected and always welcome for life.
 

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Hell no! Where I came from a nice hairy chest was looked upon just as good as a nice size cock. I got the best of both worlds so I’m a happy camper! I have never felt less because I had a hairy chest in the presence of a smooth chested dude! Quiet the opposite.
 
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Quoting my partner, he gives "no fucks about what chest hair a person has (or doesn't have). It's not even something he thinks about."

I am not attracted to hetero men, so it is a little foreign to me to respond to this.

As a gay man (femmier side of relationship), I like "communication" and genuine "connection", so I like a man to communicate more that a few lines here and there.

It must be very different in a hetero relationship in how people talk to each other. It seems that he is saying that he is completely indifferent to his own chest hair. I can only infer that the attractions that you both have for each other involve other things.

Compatibility between individuals has allot to do with their life experiences, needs, etc.
 
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I am not attracted to hetero men, so it is a little foreign to me to respond to this.

As a gay man (femmier side of relationship), I like "communication" and genuine "connection", so I like a man to communicate more that a few lines here and there.

It must be very different in a hetero relationship in how people talk to each other. It seems that he is saying that he is completely indifferent to his own chest hair. I can only infer that the attractions that you both have for each other involve other things.

Compatibility between individuals has allot to do with their life experiences, needs, etc.

I like him. With or without chest hair. He didn't used to have much and he tended to shave it off. I liked that just fine. As he has gotten a bit older he has gotten fuzzier. I like that just fine too. It's because it's him. I like how he is. We talk plenty, he just isn't that fussed about his body hair. We both do things with our hair with the other in mind. He doesn't cut his hair off as short as he might, and I grow mine out.

He doesn't feel more or less masculine because of some body hair. He's very secure in himself. Also, he is hetero, but I'm not. I'm AFAB but gender queer. I communicate heavily in any relationship.
 
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Hell no! Where I came from a nice hairy chest was looked upon just as good as a nice size cock. I got the best of both worlds so I’m a happy camper! I have never felt less because I had a hairy chest in the presence of a smooth chested dude! Quiet the opposite.

It seems all is going well for you and it seems that your environment complimented your physical attributes, enabling you to thrive.

I feel the same about a smooth Asian body. For my needs, Asians all the way.
 
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I like him. With or without chest hair. He didn't used to have much and he tended to shave it off. I liked that just fine. As he has gotten a bit older he has gotten fuzzier. I like that just fine too. It's because it's him. I like how he is. We talk plenty, he just isn't that fussed about his body hair. We both do things with our hair with the other in mind. He doesn't cut his hair off as short as he might, and I grow mine out.

He doesn't feel more or less masculine because of some body hair. He's very secure in himself. Also, he is hetero, but I'm not. I'm AFAB but gender queer. I communicate heavily in any relationship.
I like him. With or without chest hair. He didn't used to have much and he tended to shave it off. I liked that just fine. As he has gotten a bit older he has gotten fuzzier. I like that just fine too. It's because it's him. I like how he is. We talk plenty, he just isn't that fussed about his body hair. We both do things with our hair with the other in mind. He doesn't cut his hair off as short as he might, and I grow mine out.

He doesn't feel more or less masculine because of some body hair. He's very secure in himself. Also, he is hetero, but I'm not. I'm AFAB but gender queer. I communicate heavily in any relationship.
I like him. With or without chest hair. He didn't used to have much and he tended to shave it off. I liked that just fine. As he has gotten a bit older he has gotten fuzzier. I like that just fine too. It's because it's him. I like how he is. We talk plenty, he just isn't that fussed about his body hair. We both do things with our hair with the other in mind. He doesn't cut his hair off as short as he might, and I grow mine out.

He doesn't feel more or less masculine because of some body hair. He's very secure in himself. Also, he is hetero, but I'm not. I'm AFAB but gender queer. I communicate heavily in any relationship.

It sounds like you have a mutually-rewarding, nurturing and positively-reinforcing relationship.You found a rare and treasured balance for a long lasting healthy relationship

Treasure each other and what you have together. It is a rare find in the West.
 
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Hell no! Where I came from a nice hairy chest was looked upon just as good as a nice size cock. I got the best of both worlds so I’m a happy camper! I have never felt less because I had a hairy chest in the presence of a smooth chested dude! Quiet the opposite.

You grew up in an environment that nurtured your external features and it sounds like you can thrive in that environment.

I can see that from a different view. I love smooth Asian bodies and thrive in happiness and nurturing as well.