Cock size led me to become total bottom!

[LatinCaribbeanNYC]

Don't give up, it is jut a matter of finding the right chemistry, the right fit.

One thing though, hung or not guys should embrace your preference, be proud of it. It is a very wrong idea to assume that because of your dick size you should be one or another. If big people expect you to top, if small, the think you most bottom. Big mistake!

As a top, I can tell some of the best bottoms I've got have been very hung guys and the more they have embraced their pleasure, the more happy and amazing they get.

 

[EquusAZ]

Great thread!

So....from my own personal story - one of my exes heard about my size and was determined to get me to top him. And I did. It took me a few years of experimentation to understand HOW to be a good top - and one thing I did was to teach myself how to be a good bottom. I taught myself how to take my size, and learned what it felt like. That way I knew what the bottoms were experiencing. So - there you go.

BTW - You are incredibly hot - I'd top you any day! lol

 

[SportyXX]

Thanks for the responses guys. Just to clarify.....I'm not suggesting for a minute that I'm so big that no one can take me. Of course there are lots of guys that could easily take me and indeed take much larger. My point was simply that negative experiences trying to fuck guys in my teenage years led me to want to be a bottom. I love being a bottom and am not trying to look for a guy that I can fuck.

 

[902369]

So basically, you like many gay men, enjoy bottoming more so than topping.

 

[Miafboi305]

I have a 9 inch cock and not to be conceited but I'm very good top but I do that for work as an escort and privately nothing more Satisfying than getting fucked by a huge dick that knows what he's doing and I know exactly what parts of my ass need to be pressed up against to make me a bust without touching myself after a top come and he still in my ass and hard so I just know how to maneuver so he can see it LOL I can take rough and love it but just having parts of my ass stimulated by a huge thick cock not moving gives me intense orgasm I fortunately find myself in situations where you guys at top for hire that learn I would rather get fucked by big black dick Than top a hot white ass - it's just a preference but certainly it threatens a lot of people but Recently however gossip got me a lot of clients who white top with huge cocks but I would never actually charge if I had met them online cruising LOL One of the things must escort say were successful is that you should always say you were a top so thankfully the gossip hasn't affected my income And actually has make work fun lately

 

[littleguyhugedick]

DUDE. The same happened to me almost and I look bigger than yours. Don't get me wrong you are HUGE. I am just a hair longer. Do you like to be a bottom?

 

[sammiec3]

how tall are you sportyxx? just woundering im 55'2" got 7+" andlove to top i like a guy who has big cock, then i can fuk him and suck him at same time and he short like me, me nd my boy fr had like almost 18" of cock between both of us, like to fuktall guys too, and well think large dicks are so sexy too

 

[coolguybaldsexy]

Yup its a problem. You have to learn to be good with your hands and your tongue too. im a top who is aggressive but Im a giver too. some guys just cant handle things the first time around, or even the second. you have to keep trying. As a total top, I know damn well I couldnt not take my own cock let alone any of the blessed men on here , like yourself. Now if your just feeling selfish, which it certainly seems you were NOT and are NOT, then I can understand that frustration. It's a figurative and literal pain in the ass, going into a sexual situation concerned about if your gonna fit. I don't know about other people, but the pain can go both ways... for the bottom and for your cock. if you don't believe that, i want some of that macho stuff your smoking.

 

[ilovedirtyoldmen]

thought you were gonna say that bc of small size! didn't expect all that dick! :O

Lol me too it must be strange to be a bottom with a real man's cock especially if you're on your knees sucking a much smaller cock than yours. I love the feel of humiliation it makes my tiny little thing so hard and as soon as they say things like I can see why your girlfriend is fucking other men and why you sucking my cock because it's the only time you get to have a real cock in your hands this sort of verbal makes me shoot my pathetic little load all over the floor

 

[bo51guy]

I am a total bottom
Because my 3.5 inch cock made me a bottom .
I whorship all superior cock , with my mouth and with my bottom if instructed .
Guy
cock slut

 

[Black_Frost]

No.
I was raped, once. Current mod rules won't allow me to go into more detail than that. My rapist was smaller than I was.
It hurt like hell, and I've never, ever, bottomed again, nor wanted to.
If I can't get it into a guy, anally, then we're just going to have to settle for oral. If I can get it into him anally, I'll do my best to make it pleasurable for him, rather than painful.

All of that is one reason I actually prefer women. Generally speaking, while I have more teeth issues with them and thus generally forego blowjobs (women tend to have smaller mouths than men do) I have far less difficulty getting it into a vagina, even if that gets difficult. And, since I far prefer fucking to oral....

 

[deleted1025121]

The entire opposite happened for me. I'm smaller in size and figured out pretty quickly most men want guys with size. And if you dont have that WOW cock...you pretty quickly get dismissed or they assume you must be a bottom. Its kind of two-faced and isn't fair...but it's personally led me away from the entire act of penetration because of the insecurity and expectations surrounding it, and a few negative experiences in my youth from it.

 

[cabbagehead]

I have a 9 inch cock and not to be conceited but I'm very good top but I do that for work as an escort and privately nothing more Satisfying than getting fucked by a huge dick that knows what he's doing and I know exactly what parts of my ass need to be pressed up against to make me a bust without touching myself after a top come and he still in my ass and hard so I just know how to maneuver so he can see it LOL I can take rough and love it but just having parts of my ass stimulated by a huge thick cock not moving gives me intense orgasm I fortunately find myself in situations where you guys at top for hire that learn I would rather get fucked by big black dick Than top a hot white ass - it's just a preference but certainly it threatens a lot of people but Recently however gossip got me a lot of clients who white top with huge cocks but I would never actually charge if I had met them online cruising LOL One of the things must escort say were successful is that you should always say you were a top so thankfully the gossip hasn't affected my income And actually has make work fun lately

9 inches ,,,what a nut job

 

[auncut10in]

Great thread!

So....from my own personal story - one of my exes heard about my size and was determined to get me to top him. And I did. It took me a few years of experimentation to understand HOW to be a good top - and one thing I did was to teach myself how to be a good bottom. I taught myself how to take my size, and learned what it felt like. That way I knew what the bottoms were experiencing. So - there you go.

BTW - You are incredibly hot - I'd top you any day! lol

You bring up a good point. Maybe I should try being a bottom. Not sure I could handle a big dick. Should I start smaller? Or just go for it?

The one thing I almost always do is lie on my back and let the bottom lower himself at his own pace and having total control. It works way better and actually doesn't take as long as when I am the one pushing. Once they get used to the size, then they love me taking charge.

 

[agentblueuk]

For me it has very much depended on context. When in a relationship, I've tended to bottom more due to my size, either because my partner has struggled or I've not wanted to presume they are ok to take me. One of my early relationships told me straight away I was too big for them to take, but did try after a few months, but despite my best efforts to put them in control and be gentle, they still injured themselves and so that's kinda stayed with me. My current partner has no prior experience receiving before me, so we had to take things slow and spent a small fortune on lube in the early days!

Laying on your back and letting them lower themselves on is definitely the best position. It's also closer to how people are used to relaxing their muscles, which I think helps a lot too

When it comes to more casual hook ups, people tend to be meeting me because of my size, so therefore I'm top

I think all larger guys should try bottoming, if for no other reason than to learn what it's like from the other side

 

[Heat]

Christ, nothing sexier than a well hung bottom. Love the feeling of a big cock pressed between our stomachs as we fuck.... deep eye contact, kissing and talking sexy filth. Wowsa.

 

[marcsdc]

The entire opposite happened for me. I'm smaller in size and figured out pretty quickly most men want guys with size. And if you dont have that WOW cock...you pretty quickly get dismissed or they assume you must be a bottom. Its kind of two-faced and isn't fair...but it's personally led me away from the entire act of penetration because of the insecurity and expectations surrounding it, and a few negative experiences in my youth from it.

Buddy, I don't think you are particularly small....

 

[EquusAZ]

You bring up a good point. Maybe I should try being a bottom. Not sure I could handle a big dick. Should I start smaller? Or just go for it?

The one thing I almost always do is lie on my back and let the bottom lower himself at his own pace and having total control. It works way better and actually doesn't take as long as when I am the one pushing. Once they get used to the size, then they love me taking charge.

Ironically I would like to also take credit for turning my bf @Aithon into a hella good top! He'd topped a few times but few had the ability to take him. That length is a challenge! When he first told me to "be careful" because sucking him off was getting him riled up to top - I promised him I'd prep and be able to take him in a few days. And I did. We flip about 50/50 now.

We've learned to read each other's needs / wants / desires and feed off of each other very well. Being able to identify good ways for your bottoms to be able to take you is KEY! @auncut10in is on point with how he lets his bottoms take him.

My advice also (to @auncut10in) is to start small. Toys help ;-) Don't let your eyes be too big for your hole. lol. A real cock feels a million times better than any toy - though vixskin is by far soooooooo close and worth it IMO.

 

[auncut10in]

Ironically I would like to also take credit for turning my bf @Aithon into a hella good top! He'd topped a few times but few had the ability to take him. That length is a challenge! When he first told me to "be careful" because sucking him off was getting him riled up to top - I promised him I'd prep and be able to take him in a few days. And I did. We flip about 50/50 now.

We've learned to read each other's needs / wants / desires and feed off of each other very well. Being able to identify good ways for your bottoms to be able to take you is KEY! @auncut10in is on point with how he lets his bottoms take him.

My advice also (to @auncut10in) is to start small. Toys help ;-) Don't let your eyes be too big for your hole. lol. A real cock feels a million times better than any toy - though vixskin is by far soooooooo close and worth it IMO.

I will take your advice to heart. Sounds like another fun adventure.

 

[find83]

The entire opposite happened for me. I'm smaller in size and figured out pretty quickly most men want guys with size. And if you dont have that WOW cock...you pretty quickly get dismissed or they assume you must be a bottom. Its kind of two-faced and isn't fair...but it's personally led me away from the entire act of penetration because of the insecurity and expectations surrounding it, and a few negative experiences in my youth from it.

It's a goldielock syndrome most gay guys have. They say they want huge cocks but can't take it. so if your average to small you can't top because you're too small so you get no offers. You bigger than average you get hit on like crazy but non of them can take you.