So, I could be wrong, but it seems the original poster was basically asking, lo those many years ago in hoary LPSG antiquity, "Are women gold-diggers or size queens?" Way to frame the argument there, dude. I'm in no position to pontificate on what all women everywhere want--I'm not quite that stupid--but I can say that in my experience and observation, both with platonic female friends and those I've been in relationships with, that many women seem to value stability, kindness, intelligence, a good sense of humor and a sense of passion, commitment and purpose toward something larger than himself in their potential partners--whether that partnership is long-term or for one night. What women don't seem to care much for are guys who base their whole outlook of reality on pornography and who like to spend their spare time jacking off while admiring their own cocks and/or bank balances in the mirror. Hmm, imagine that....
Again, I'm not trying to speak for anyone, this is just my observation.