This does not necessarily focuses on gay men alone, but...have you ever had sex with a cock so thick that it made you bleed? I've had this a couple of times...no matter how lubed up I get it, and how they try to ease it in...I just feel this sharp pain from having my hole stretched more than usual and it just turns me off when that happens. Any suggestions on how to ease it in better? Usually for me to prepare for a big one I just get eatin out.
Yes, one time I did it with a man who was very thick and we went hardcore without lube. For about 3 weeks my ass bled everytime I used the restroom and it HURT like crazy
I've never ever bled! Glad I haven't... Bleeding is from tearing, right? I'm pretty sure my butthole hasn't been teared!
Spend more time warming up. Not everyone can just jump straight in and some people need a longer warm up than others. Some people have to start the stretching process days beforehand.
Warm up and stretch, maybe even for a few days beforehand, like subgirrl said. Toys, plugs and lube. And be really careful with hygiene - a tear in that area can get infected so easily.
