Cock v. Tonsils

[D_Bubba_Butter]

...because prolonged collision upward toward a girls brain can tend to make the cock sore, also.

Huh?! You're not supposed to be trying to break through the base of the skull...

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

If you have a GP, sounds like you might be in the UK. If so, they'll probably refer you for tonsillectomy if you have recurrently inflamed tonsils (e.g. 5x per season), if you ask, but remember that they're part of your immune system that sequester & destroy bugs entering through your mouth. You might see a crescent of tonsil bulge if they're normal sized, but big ones will properly bulge towards the midline. You should be able to see how much space you've got between just by looking with your mouth open. Admittedly, you'll be able to squash them a bit, but that means your gentleman's appendage will remain in contact when going back & forth.

I see the little bulge, not like a golf ball or anything. I haven't had tonsilitus in years - it was triggered by a move to a new climate and OMG was it an awful first few months. He was right, eventually I got used to the new climate. *shakes pom poms*

But yes, due to his size there's constant contact.

also 69 has tolerance requirements; such as each other's heights, his length, each others reach, etc. haven't had much comfort/freedom with it due to real-world limitations.

Fortunately, we're both tall, so 69 is niiiiice!

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Huh?! You're not supposed to be trying to break through the base of the skull...

:biggrin1: Hahaha! I've experienced a bruised throat before, so I think he means the poking against the back of throat or palate as opposed to gliding down can be problematic.

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

Hmmm. Having a fairly large mouth & throat I've never had the tonsils issue, per se, but general soreness isn't too uncommon after being throatfucked by some.

I'm going to second Nia's, and the OP's, comments about tongue reaching out. Doing it more consciously may provide more room, overall, and not force his cock to bend and widen laterally.

Once you're relaxed enough, lubed enough, excited enough to just start enjoying the action, it's all to easy to forget about keeping that tongue out. Picture what happens to a garden hose when you bend it. if it's not a radical bend, it is nice and smooth with a constant circumference. If you bend it too far, it kinks and flattens out right at the bend. Guess where your tonsils are, sweetie.

Of course, you can always come by with your man & I'll be happy to demonstrate and help work on the problem with you ;-)

 

[D_Bubba_Butter]

I see the little bulge, not like a golf ball or anything.

In which case, they're normal sized & you're just going to get a sore throat now & then...* :yawn: --> :toothache:

eventually I got used to the new climate. *shakes pom poms*

So you're some kind of international cheerleader?!



*these smilies are the closest I could get...

 

[justan]

exactly. it can be unpleasurable and distracting for both if prolonged too long.

:biggrin1: Hahaha! I've experienced a bruised throat before, so I think he means the poking against the back of throat or palate as opposed to gliding down can be problematic.

 

[Infernal]

I don't have tonsils and I still can't get it down.

 

[MickeyLee]

echinacea and sage tea, Ms. FLAG. both help reduce the size of ya tonsils.
a mug a day helps boost immunities, soothes the throat.. and taste pretty damn good *with honey or agave*

a strong brew of sage tea just before oral will help relax the throat, shrink ya tonsils and slick up your throat.

like tips and tricks... i have better luck opening my throat by pushing my jaw forward, sticking my tongue out *think going aaahhh at the doctor* to open my throat up. stretching out my neck.. kinda drops the bottom of my throat open.. the widest bit of his glans slide under my tonsils.. feels almost the exact same as him slipping under/by my cervix into the PF.

me boy has the curve.. and deep throating is easier in a sixtynine, straddling his chest position.. but playing my tongue along the bottoms of shaft, frenulum.. and the yummy boy throb is my favorite part *pervy grin* not something i'd give up to avoid a soar throat :tongue1:

*thankfully i don't work in radio*

 

[D_56yher6y]

Tonsil removal, the next must-have porn accessory?

Unfortunately I had mine removed as a teen so no surefire advice, but I think MickeyLee is onto something. You might even mix beverage with oral if you have confidence about not gagging. What soothes the throat might also be exciting to his sensations.

 

[MickeyLee]

if ya don't wanna risk ingesting, gargling is an option. bonus of gargling with hot tea might be a partner friendly boost to the temperature of ya mouth/throat.

could maybe mix it up with ice?

*waves hello to Ms. Frisson*

 

[D_56yher6y]

Or menthol based?

I actually want to try some oral now paired with my favorite mango tea. Thanks for the idea, MickeyLee!

"Hey, Mangoman, come here!"

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

echinacea and sage tea, Ms. FLAG. both help reduce the size of ya tonsils.
a mug a day helps boost immunities, soothes the throat.. and taste pretty damn good *with honey or agave*

a strong brew of sage tea just before oral will help relax the throat, shrink ya tonsils and slick up your throat.

like tips and tricks... i have better luck opening my throat by pushing my jaw forward, sticking my tongue out *think going aaahhh at the doctor* to open my throat up. stretching out my neck.. kinda drops the bottom of my throat open.. the widest bit of his glans slide under my tonsils.. feels almost the exact same as him slipping under/by my cervix into the PF.

me boy has the curve.. and deep throating is easier in a sixtynine, straddling his chest position.. but playing my tongue along the bottoms of shaft, frenulum.. and the yummy boy throb is my favorite part *pervy grin* not something i'd give up to avoid a soar throat :tongue1:

*thankfully i don't work in radio*

ML, I really can't have all of this good advice in one post.

Weird thing, I was thinking of trying Throat Coat tea, but wasn't sure there would be any benefit - thank you for bringing me back to the herbal, soothey side. :hug: I will attempt the "aaahhh," under tonsil move, which I think will be key for the kneeling positions where I feel him rubbing against them the most.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

In which case, they're normal sized & you're just going to get a sore throat now & then...* :yawn: --> :toothache:




So you're some kind of international cheerleader?!



*these smilies are the closest I could get...

I'm an international lady of mystery. :smile:

Tonsil removal, the next must-have porn accessory?

Unfortunately I had mine removed as a teen so no surefire advice, but I think MickeyLee is onto something. You might even mix beverage with oral if you have confidence about not gagging. What soothes the throat might also be exciting to his sensations.

I knew someone would mention tonsil removal, hehe. :biggrin1: I'm into temp play, so ML's suggestion sounds like a winner for me. ...and I do gag with him, but he likes to push my limits to produce the gag and is just part of the rough oral experience.

I don't have tonsils and I still can't get it down.

*pats the Infernal* the person I was seeing when I joined LPSG was so ridiculously girthy it took tons of prep with vocal exercises before I could get it down, and when I finally did, it was still too much. So I used a variety of bj techniques and would delight him with a bit of deep throat here and there, but always try not make it the whole bj experience.

If your partner enjoys HJs as well, they are a nice way to give the sensation of being completely enveloped in warm, slippy goodness without you struggling with deep throating.