Cock Whipped?

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  1. B_spiker067

    B_spiker067 New Member

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    Men get pussy whipped at the drop of a hat.

    Gays are cocked whipped all the time, nothing really to learn here.

    Women do you get cocked whipped? Is it because of size? Do you just keep going back no matter how bad you are treated, why? Are you ashamed to be so badly whipped? Would you share a man with another just to get that long hard cock that only he works just right? This is just about sex never mind any other redeeming or extenuating circumstances that make him attractive, but mention them if necessary.
     
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    ...I have a whip I can whipe U with Spiker...lol :biggrin1::tongue:
     
  3. B_spiker067

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    Now I know what gets the Swedish girls to talk to me. Dirty talk!

    Well girl bring that whip right on over I'm sure if you don't know how to use it I do!:biggrin1::biggrin1::tongue:

    I see that you have been whipped but are to shy too share :sad2:

    How come you never pm me back?
     
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    Ive had guys treat me like crap and ive kept going back. I think im just a believer that if they were sweetheart in the begining them they still are and couldnt possible be treating me like that intentionally. However i dont think it has anything to do with the cock and sex ..Ive got toys that can work that out for me.

    But i am a cock worshipper, and have been known to beg for a look, touch, suck, fuck ..so maybe it could be taken as whipped
     
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    But is there somebody you go back to til this day (or did for a while)? Not that he even treated you bad but because of the great sex + intangibles. Would you have shared him (polyamory/polygamy), then or now?

    What were those intangibles?
     
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    Firstly id never share..Im not once for putting up with seconds and im far to cautious of catching a disease. And no i didnt go back to him but if he had off come looking for that last time, once, twice, three times etc,etc i probably would have gone with it for quite a while before i got jack of it. Yes he was the most well endowed, yes he was good in bed but not sure how long that could have overriden my sense of feeling stupid and used
     
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    Nah, I don't think you were whipped, not the way you describe it. Close, maybe!?! You are a tougher woman than it takes to be whipped.:tongue:

    A woman into love would say,"I share no man." A whipped woman would say, "I'll share you to keep you." A woman really in love would say, "I'd consider sharing to keep you, but I wouldn't." I think.:cool:
     
  8. SassySpy

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    :cool:VERY interesting concept, Spiker. I had to really think about this one. Im not sure I agree about pussy whipped men, Ive never met one- but I do remember a guy who I had fantastic sex with, and even after I found out I wasn't his only girl- even after I found out he had told a pack of lies to me- even when I knew when he wasn't with me, he was with her, or her, or even her, for awhile (a short while, and with protection) I DID keep taking whatever he dished out, just for those times that I was the one he was having sex with. No he wasn't hung- but he sure knew how to use what he had.
    Still, i think it was less to do with the great sex, and far more to do with where my own self-esteem was at the time. I think of it now and shudder, and wonder how I sunk so low. Many months later I bumped into him in a club, and in his swaggering way he assumed I was still up for more of him. It was a great pleasure letting him know there's more to being good in the sack than knowing how to use your tongue.:tongue: I felt fantastic when I told him what an ass he is. I think anyone who allows themselves to be mistreated or used has self confidence issues, cos nobody's THAT good.
     
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    I've seen a pussy whipped man. It's not a pretty sight. Nice guy gets treated like shit by manipuative bitch who know's she has him wrapped around her finger. I guess the sex keeps him coming back.

    I've also seen the same thing occur in females being dominated by a bastard. But I don't think this is purely sex. I think it's more a misguided vision of reality. I have a gf who has been going out with a complete bastard on and off for years. He treats her like shit, cheats on her and has no intention of commiting to anything which is what she wants. He also specialises in feeding her bad drugs and even worse attitude.

    Why?

    Sassy makes a very good point about this sort of relationship being based in someone else's self esteem issues. I think she is wrapped up in the nightlife/glam/party image and has yet to see what it really looks like in the cold hard light of the morning after. She has always been down on herself although she is gorgeous and maybe being the nightclub king of Carlton's girl makes her feel good about herself.

    Maybe.
     
  10. Mr. Snakey

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    I think male or female can relate to being treated like shit. I know i can. It made me a stronger person. Because of my nice guy nature people sometimes think they can treat me like shit and get away with. Lee you have the right idea. Its ok to be alone. I have been at times too. I feel the same way if they treat me bad Its bye! Bye........ My girlfriend now treats me like a king and i treat her like a queen.:cool: She had to go away for a couple of days because of her job. I couldnt sleep in the bed without her. I slept on the floor for three nights.
     
  11. tiff86

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    I guess I know what you're talking about a little. My bf is a great guy, he treats me very nice and not like shit at all. Sometimes he's sorta frustrating though how he likes his way of doing things and he doesn't think he needs to listen or hear people out. Sometimes he does but sometimes it's like he knows the way and he doesn't have to listen. It depends on his mood or the situation I think. Sometimes I think I let things go cuz I don't want to make a big thing out of little stuff. I don't know if I'm "cock-whipped" but I dunno maybe part of it is he's so amazing in bed and I don't want to miss out on it. It's not just cuz he's big but sometimes I honestly feel like he's tuned into my body better than I am, like I definitely feel like he knows what makes me cum and he shows me not the other way around. But also sometimes I feel like none of the little stuff is a big deal and when we have sex we're just in this separate world and the other stuff sorta fades away.
     
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    yup... you're cock-whipped tiff!

    :tongue: j/k. nothing wrong with your approach. all relationships require you to deal with the little things that bug you... it's important for you to see past them and be able to enjoy those 'positive' moments. as long as its not abusive or detrimental to you. ;)
     
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    [quote=spiker067;664439]

    Men get pussy whipped at the drop of a hat.
    I don't believe that to be true. If it were no man would ever cheat.
    Gays are cocked whipped all the time, nothing really to learn here.
    Gee, talk about a broad sweeping generalization!
    Women do you get cocked whipped?
    Yes, but it takes a while
    Is it because of size?
    No, more because of skill and stamina.
    Do you just keep going back no matter how bad you are treated, why?
    I did when I was young and dumb, but no more! Great sex and he generously subsidized my underemployed lifestyle.
    Are you ashamed to be so badly whipped?
    No, it's only ever happend once.
    Would you share a man with another just to get that long hard cock that only he works just right?
    NO, NEVER. What's mine is mine and nobody elses'. I am not down with OPP.
    This is just about sex never mind any other redeeming or extenuating circumstances that make him attractive, but mention them if necessary.

    If it's just about sex then nothing else matters. I have a fuck buddy who is the complete antithesis of everything I have ever said I wanted in a man. I prefer my men to be at laeast 6'; he is an inch shorter than me. I weigh more than him, he drives a clunker (89 Prizm), he is the most non-verbal man I know and he is a recovering alcoholic.

    So what do we talk about? We don't talk! That's why he's a fuck buddy and not a boyfriend. He has also made me cum harder and more often in 6 months than my last bofyriend did in 12 years. Hmm, maybe this is the 2nd time I've been cock whipped:rolleyes:

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  14. B_hungnate

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    I sometimes get the feeling women cut me more slack because of my size, but I guess it depends on the woman and what situation she's in. I've slept with mostly older women and I always get the feeling it's the ones who are recently divorced or married who spoil me and cut me the most slack. I always figured it's just because they just were in a crappy marriage and they're more appreciative.
     
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    Cock whipped? I much prefer the term "Dickmatized" as coined by comedienne Sommore in the film The Queens of Comedy!:biggrin::tongue:
     
  16. tiff86

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    No he's definitely not abusive or anything! I think it's more like he's an alpha male or something (that's the expression my best gave me to describe him). He's just the kind of guy who likes to be in control of things. W/some things it kinda annoys me sometimes but w/other things I don't mind (like w/sex I don't mind and I kinda like it:smile: ).
     
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