Cockhead sensitivity and Blowjobs

[the_horned_god]

I received my first full-on blowjob yesterday. It was Awesome, yes.

I did notice however that my cockhead is so sensitive (I'm intact) that any prolonged attention paid directly to the head was more painful than erotic. Especially during vigorous face fucking and deep throating.

I was wondering how you more experienced fellas with intact foreskins deal with this. Is this something that goes away with more sexual activity?

 

[erratic]

Yes, I do too. Love oral, but the more vigorous stuff gets painful after a bit. I'm gay and have test-driven, as it were, a couple (okay, maybe more than a couple) other intact guys and they also weren't down with the sort of quick and furious action that the cut guys I've been with prefer.

I find that oral with foreskin involved (especially when it's particularly sensitive) is best with lots of fun, exploration, teasing, and long slow movements slowly, slowly working up to porn-style vigour. The more of the fun stuff I do first, the more hard-and-heavy I can do later.

 

[amadordelsexo]

gland sensitivity involve many facts,
its normal after cum,to feel pain at cock gland head.
but gland sensitivity also involve other probems due excessive masturbation during years,that make gland skin become very thin.
so it induce to male premature ejaculation

 

[beretta216]

Congrats on the first beejay, Bro! ;]

I'm intact, and while I've never had any "painful" problems like that, I guess I've been "overstimulated" before... usually I just kill whatever's going on for a sec, and switch things up a sec, and allow things a chance to chill for a sec. For instance, I'll flip over to eating her out if the blowjob she's giving me becomes too intense or some shit.

I received my first full-on blowjob yesterday. It was Awesome, yes.

I did notice however that my cockhead is so sensitive (I'm intact) that any prolonged attention paid directly to the head was more painful than erotic. Especially during vigorous face fucking and deep throating.

I was wondering how you more experienced fellas with intact foreskins deal with this. Is this something that goes away with more sexual activity?

 

[Alonso]

Yep, congrats on getting serviced!

I'm also uncut, and it can be tricky finding a guy who knows how to deal with it (I envy Europeans and Latin Americans, whose sexual partners must all be foreskin veterans, heh). Retracting fully and sucking hard is a big no-no - I'm just too sensitive - but working a tongue underneath, pulling it back mostly, or best of all tugging on the skin with the mouth (not teeth!) all feel pretty incredible. And the best sensation is obviously being buried completely to the base, where it doesn't really matter what's up with the foreskin at the moment. It's related to the hand job issue, where a few are just way too vigorous with the back-and-forth skin motion. So basically, don't be afraid to guide your partner, be vocal about what works and what doesn't, and try to do it as gently and sexily as possible without making a big deal of it. Your sensitivity isn't out of the ordinary in the least.

 

[D_F_Ng_Ghan]

Congrats man!
Don't worry about the feeling, you will get used to it!

 

[Bashful_man]

congratulations on your first bj. Most all uncut guys have the same problem I think. The foreskin has kept the head nice and soft and sensitive, where as cut is tougher and dryer more like leather,from the years of the head being unprotected rubbing on cloths. All day long your cock is bathed naturally when you are uncut, think of it like your hand if its in water any length of time it gets wrinkled and soft, and easily injured, thus same as your cock. If you notice cut cocks are not as slick and shiny as uncut. You just have to slow things down and let the person giving , mostly cut guys that don't know how sensitive a cock is when protected by foreskin, that he needs to slow down take it slow and enjoy.

 

[Bean_head]

I still remember my first and how sensitive it was.

As stated above, just let the other person know but at the same time if you want to de-sensitize, learn to pull back more, more contact when pleasuring yourself and maybe pulled back when wearing underwear?

You'll soon learn what feels right and what doesn't but don't be scared to be vocal.

 

[878863]

I've had many uncut boyfriends who stated that they needed me to be careful with blowjobs and handjobs because too much stimulation was actually kind of painful. This is a case of grass being greener on the other side. I'm cut and experience very little stimulation from blow jobs to the point of not even really wanting to get them.

 

[the_horned_god]

@ Beretta, Alonso, Bashful and Thick Mule, thanks guys

Yeah, I always wanted to get a BJ and while opportunities were aplenty, I've been a bit apprehensive about getting the clap or something to go through with it.

Also, I got head for the second time today (Woo Hoo!) and I noticed that the uber sensitivity had lessened slightly, allowing me to enjoy the experience more.

Where I live, virtually no one is cut and so those who do the servicing seem to be adept at doing it right.

And the best part is - I think when I graduate to fucking, I'll last longer. I dunno if it's possible to estimate one's staying power based on how long you last during a BJ, but despite the session lasting nearly an hour, I managed not to cum.

It was great for my ego to see my bottom try to get all of my dick into his mouth and almost choking on it with it shoved down his throat. Watching his tear-stained face as he tried to bravely take it all made me feel real good, nomsayin?

 

[D_F_Ng_Ghan]

And the best part is - I think when I graduate to fucking, I'll last longer. I dunno if it's possible to estimate one's staying power based on how long you last during a BJ, but despite the session lasting nearly an hour, I managed not to cum.

While this may be a hint that you are gonna last long, it is not sure: fucking and BJs are very different feelings! If you want to train yourself to last longer, try edging - that is, wanking for long sessions getting as close as you can without cumming. It helped me a lot to become a good stud

 

[lasolasbud]

Tell your cocksucker to go slow. Receiving head is different from jacking and fucking, you are regulating the speed and friction; in essence you’re edging.

You can give direction by communicating, tell them how you like it; slower, deeper, alternating between your cock and your nuts. Make sure they are playing with your skin; working their tongue into your covered knob.

It’s always nice to mention when you’re about to shoot. Some cocksuckers will go deep and let you shoot down their throats; others will lip-lock your knob and let you shoot in their mouths for the taste. A pro will let you know if your seed tastes good. If it doesn’t, taste your stuff and then figure out how to adjust your diet (I think there’s a thread covering that topic).

If you got a nice clean cock and shoot some tasty stuff, you’ll get head regularly.

Have fun.