Lately whenever I try to top my boyfriend, I have not been hard enough to get the job done. When he sucks me I get a decent hard-on. But once I try to go to that side of the moon, I am just not firm enough to get in. It feels like I just need an extra 10%. And then I worry about if I will get in, and...you know the rest. It may sound crazy, but he seems to be "tighter" than other guys I have been with. So, is a cockring a potential solution here? I have never used one. I would appreciate any advice on how to use one or pick one out. On the plus side, I can now describe myself as "versatile" :biggrin1:.