Any of you guys think cocks are a turn on, but you aren't attracted to men sexually?
Originally posted by Dr Rock@Oct 4 2005, 01:43 PM
I dunno, my dick is a way nicer person than i am
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Originally posted by iceman061278@Oct 4 2005, 01:09 PM
It's weird... the sight of a nice long, thick cock gets me rock hard... I fantasize about sucking them and getting fucked by them... but I have no desire to fuck a man with my own cock, no desire to get oral from a guy, and I also don't like to see pictures of cocks if I can see what the guy looks like... I haven't been able to figure out the logic behind that... anyone want to try and rationalize it for me?
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Originally posted by Matthew@Oct 4 2005, 08:04 PM
I think there are several different aspects to all of this.
First, there are some straight guys who simply can aesthetically admire a beautiful penis, just as I and some other gay men can aesthetically admire women's bodies. These guys are not really aroused by a cock.
Then there are other straight guys (and I personally believe they are straight, contrary to what some people on this forum think) that are also aroused by cocks, especially their own, sometimes others as well. I have heard many guys in this category say, for example, that they get turned on by watching their own cocks while they masturbate, looking in a mirror, etc. Or they might especially like blow jobs, not just for the pleasure, but from the sight of their cock being worked on. BUT, these guys don't really lust for other men or want a male partner, they want to be with a woman.
By contrast, some straight guys find dicks completely unappealing and even a turn-off.
And I think there are even more subcategories of 'straight', plus various shades of bisexuality, attraction to transsexuals, not to mention all the different flavors of gay male sexuality, etc etc etc.
To me it all means that human sexuality is WAY more complex and nuanced than the simplistic categories we normally use. I agree that Kinsey's groundbreaking studies on this stuff were problematic, but for very different reasons than some others on LPSG: in my opinion his two-dimensional continuum doesn't go far enough in accurately describing the variation in sexual orientation.
On what do I base these theories? My big fat opinion only, plus the fact that I ask practically everyone I know about this shit because I think it's fascinating. Also amateur porn is especially instructive :bigsmile:. It all helps me understand my own sexuality and how I differ (or not) with the so-called mainstream.
So, iceman061278, thisandthat20022003, and others, my take is that you guys are normal and in good company ... your pretty common "orientations" are just not discussed very much in society at large.
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Originally posted by thisandthat20022003@Oct 3 2005, 07:47 PM
Any of you guys think cocks are a turn on, but you aren't attracted to men sexually?
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