Cocks yes, Guys no?

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  1. thisandthat20022003

    thisandthat20022003 New Member

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    Any of you guys think cocks are a turn on, but you aren't attracted to men sexually?
     
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    It's just as possible for a straight guy to admire a man's cock without sexual connotations as it is to admire his physical build or his face or the mole on his nose.
     
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    From a female perspective, sometimes it's nice to look at a pretty package, all done up with a bow and such, but that doesn't mean you have to like the tree it's under.
     
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    Certainly, mine is the biggest turn-on I've ever seen. As for all the other cocks out there, I'll let you or others take care of them.
     
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    I do believe that men can admire other men, yet not be sexually attracted to them. Being a Gay man, I do the same with females. ... :wow:

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    Cocks are just cool. They're hot to look at, they swell up when they're aroused, they ejaculate- it's just cool to see. I don't think recognising this and reacting to it is abnormal in the least. Boobs are pretty too, I hardly think that acknowledging that makes me gay or odd, just gives me something else to look at and appreciate.

    I think that being able to admire body parts of one's own gender is a good thing, it doesn't really have anything to do with who we want to fuck, it's just noticing that something we have is pretty.
     
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    Workin' up a good pot of mad!
    Jana,

    Once again thank you for breaking it down and keeping it real! LOL!

    Kim
     
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    Well, I suppose I can confess. I just try not to do that with boobs and women I'm talking to!
     
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    I dunno, my dick is a way nicer person than i am
     
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    Better looking, too? :hiding:
     
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    You should introduce me and let me judge for myself.
     
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    those pics on your profile are pretty admirable!!!

    You should introduce me and let me judge for myself.
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    It's weird... the sight of a nice long, thick cock gets me rock hard... I fantasize about sucking them and getting fucked by them... but I have no desire to fuck a man with my own cock, no desire to get oral from a guy, and I also don't like to see pictures of cocks if I can see what the guy looks like... I haven't been able to figure out the logic behind that... anyone want to try and rationalize it for me?
     
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    Are you attracted to transsexuals?
     
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    Very cool topic. I've thought about this a lot. I definitely think my own cock is sexy & there are other cocks I've seen that look sexy to me, but the guys attached to them don't do much for me. I know this sounds kinda weird. There's a difference between what is sexy and erotic to me & what I think is just nice or pleasant. Like women's breasts are sexy, but guy's butts are not,at least to me. Another example is a girl's neck is erotic to me, but not a guy's neck. That's one reason why in porno they have a lot of shots of penetration & don't show the guy attached to the cock.

    BUT this also doesn't mean that I couldn't like the guy in a brotherly sort of way. I'm just not that attracted to the over-all male body.
     
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    Pretty much the same here, I call myself a straight guy, and definitly see my own cock as sexy and all that, and a nice cock is a nice cock, it's just how it is.
     
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    I think there are several different aspects to all of this.

    First, there are some straight guys who simply can aesthetically admire a beautiful penis, just as I and some other gay men can aesthetically admire women's bodies. These guys are not really aroused by a cock.

    Then there are other straight guys (and I personally believe they are straight, contrary to what some people on this forum think) that are also aroused by cocks, especially their own, sometimes others as well. I have heard many guys in this category say, for example, that they get turned on by watching their own cocks while they masturbate, looking in a mirror, etc. Or they might especially like blow jobs, not just for the pleasure, but from the sight of their cock being worked on. BUT, these guys don't really lust for other men or want a male partner, they want to be with a woman.

    By contrast, some straight guys find dicks completely unappealing and even a turn-off.

    And I think there are even more subcategories of 'straight', plus various shades of bisexuality, attraction to transsexuals, not to mention all the different flavors of gay male sexuality, etc etc etc.

    To me it all means that human sexuality is WAY more complex and nuanced than the simplistic categories we normally use. I agree that Kinsey's groundbreaking studies on this stuff were problematic, but for very different reasons than some others on LPSG: in my opinion his two-dimensional continuum doesn't go far enough in accurately describing the variation in sexual orientation.

    On what do I base these theories? My big fat opinion only, plus the fact that I ask practically everyone I know about this shit because I think it's fascinating. Also amateur porn is especially instructive :bigsmile:. It all helps me understand my own sexuality and how I differ (or not) with the so-called mainstream.

    So, iceman061278, thisandthat20022003, and others, my take is that you guys are normal and in good company ... your pretty common "orientations" are just not discussed very much in society at large.
     
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    Wow, Matthew. I think you said a lot in your post. For instance, there are some cocks that I think are more sexy looking than others. AND there are some guys who have a sexy look about them but it's different to me than how girls are sexy. Most guys aren't sexually arousing to me. But there are some male bodies that are more sensual looking than others. I'm not sure how I'm attracted to them or if you could call it sexual attraction. It's not just admiration or a appreciation of symetry or something like that. At the same time, it doesn't feel the same as how I'm sexually attracted to girls. I hope this isn't too confusing for people to understand. On top of it all, if I feel close emotionally to a guy, then I might trust him in a more intimate situation; like jerking off together. I don't really have the desire to suck cock or penetrate a guy, but watching him jerk off if he has a nice dick is erotic as fuck to me. So I don't know how I'd define myself.
     
  19. GoneA

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    Hate to be the oddball, but looking at penises don't arouse me in any way.
     
  20. prepstudinsc

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    The way you feel is exactly how many guys feel but are scared or ashamed to admit it. I've experimented (fooled around) with some of my friends by jo and even letting some of them try sucking me for the same reasons--I trusted them and it was safe. I admit that the sight of another big dick can be a turn on, and I can find things about guys sexy, but I just don't see them as something that I'm interested in having sex with. This is why it's so hard to define sexuality...it's a continuum that is mostly a grey area and it's always in flux. I hate labels because they box a person into being a certain category of sexuality, when in reality instead of being hetero, homo or bi-sexual, we should just be labeled as "sexual".
    If you feel that you can jo with someone you trust and you're both ok with it, go for it and enjoy it. If you want to do more, enjoy it. If that's not for you, that's fine, too. When having to use labels, I say "straight" but that doesn't really cover it for me. I have a couple of friends who are the same way--we're in this limbo between being straight and bi, but as long as I know that I've got friends with whom I can share some close bonding time, I'm cool and I don't worry about what society thinks about it.
     
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