Cocks yes, Guys no?
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You can appreciate another mans physical attributes without become attracted to it. So long as there is no tacit actual desire afterwards. You could say the same that working out in the gym and watching another man work say, his biceps, and watch them pump up in fascination is another example. You're not sexually attracted, you're just fascinated over the capabilities of the human body and their end result.
I think it can be kind of cool to look at them, but I'm not sexually attracted to males. I browse the image galleries every now and again, and it usually gets me a bit excited, but I have no desire or interest in actually doing anything with a man. I think it's partially because it's just viewing something that can be sexual. If I'm looking at other dudes packages I'll eventually start thinking about sex, I just happen to think about sex with a woman instead of what I'm looking at.
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I am with Iceman completely in how he feels......i guess it's an objectification kinda thing. I dig the rocket, but not necessarily the rocketeer. Dan Savage in his "Savage Love" column wrote about this exact phenomenon. I think, for me, since i'm turned on by big units but don't have a large one myself...i can experience what it is like to have a big one by "playing" with them. maybe it all stems from the amount of time as a small boy that i hung around in the high school locker room with the basketball team cuz my dad was the coach??? But i'm with you iceman....completely!!! :yourock:
Do you think you could ever watch a guy jo in real life and jo yourself watching him? Just wondering.
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Well said, Matthew--that rings really true to me. None of this can be encapsulaed by a couple of simple categories.
Hey, Wave, you're not alone there. I had a student tell me that very thing a few years back, and it makes sense--sort of a chance to live vicariously with someone else's tool.
I have certainly found it arousing from time to time to see another man's erection.
HSB, I think prepstud made a great point. Well, several actually, but this is the one that strikes me most:
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If you feel that you can jo with someone you trust and you're both ok with it, go for it and enjoy it. If you want to do more, enjoy it. If that's not for you, that's fine, too.
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[/quote]Trust sounds like the operative term there, and that includes trusting yourself to be able to judge the situation well enough. If we can get past the screwy lessons taught by our culture and escape the gender prejudices that are promoted for the sake of the status quo, perhaps we can all realize that healthy sexual experiences really can exist in a myriad of forms. But only you can decide for yourself what is right and healthy for you, man.
Finally hitting the question posed by the topic, for me, it's not a simple issue either. My turn to go out on that limb.
While my attraction to women is solid and fits a pretty clear pattern, the occasional attraction I feel to other men is pretty rare and unpredictable (at least to me). I havent been able to identify any particular type or a list of traits that I am drawn to. Its certainly not a purely physical thing at all. I couldnt name a male celebrity, for example, to whom I am attractedtheres no personality component to celebrity-watching, you know? (Now, with females, thats a different storyI generally have no problems appreciating the fine beauty of an Angelina Jolie, for example.) For me, the male thing is surely a combination of personality, response, behavior, and, to some degree, physical presence.
Its been awhile since the last time I felt that attraction---last winter maybe? Just something about him that struck me one daynot an immediate reaction. I dont know why its so infrequent.
I used to date a redhead who is practically identical to you in the cock & pubes region (and in physical size) and seeing your pix in your profile just made me think of him! He was a sexy mutha!
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[/b][/quote]Thanks, britlover.
On a side note: I asked a few of my other male friends about this, and it kind of made me realize how open this board has made me. A lot of people seemed really uncomfortable discussing it at all, and nobody admitted to it.
I asked a few [straight] girls what they thought about looking at dicks on guys they didn't find attractive and got a lot of similar responses to what the straight guys here are saying. Sometimes it's just nice to look at, even if you aren't interested in what it's attached to.
I think I object to the either/or way this post is written. Cocks yes, guys no. I'm a guy & I like myself, hell, I LOVE MYSELF! And I imagine many guys feel that they're just fine. And I also happen to like my cock since we've been together for as long as I can remember.
Maybe I'd like to rephrase the question. Do we males like ourselves in the same way we like women? Or do we simply like parts of ourselves? I always find it interesting as hell that we expect females to think we're so great, when many of us don't appreciate ourselves very much.
I realize this isn't the thrust of the thread, but it just hit me that there are so many ways to look at how we phrase questions in our own minds.
Maybe I'd like to rephrase the question. Do we males like ourselves in the same way we like women? Or do we simply like parts of ourselves? I always find it interesting as hell that we expect females to think we're so great, when many of us don't appreciate ourselves very much.
I realize this isn't the thrust of the thread, but it just hit me that there are so many ways to look at how we phrase questions in our own minds.
Like you said, that isn't the "thrust of the thread." I like my body, and I'm sure there are quite a few other guys out there that like their bodies, too. But being pleased with your own body and admiring part of another person's body without being attracted to it is a fairly different situation.
I get extremely turned on looking at, reading about or listening about giant cocks. (That's the reason I started reading LPSG, since my equipment never gave my any problems). For me, it's excactly the same like looking at, reading about or listening about big tits.
Yet, I have never had the urge to have sex with a guy. Personally, I find the idea repulsive (no offence to gay people, it's just me).
So, I 'm not gay, I 'm not bisexual, I love sex with women, and yet I get turned on by big dicks and giant cumshots.
Human nature can sure be funny...
Yet, I have never had the urge to have sex with a guy. Personally, I find the idea repulsive (no offence to gay people, it's just me).
So, I 'm not gay, I 'm not bisexual, I love sex with women, and yet I get turned on by big dicks and giant cumshots.
Human nature can sure be funny...
That is hilarious (do these forums have a laughing smilie? I can't seem to find it).
As for the topic, I admit that I'm fascinated with cocks and often browse the galleries at this site. I'm not turned on by them, though.
I've probally said this before, but I think some cocks are erotic looking. I'm not sure why that is. And a big cum shot is erotic to me also. I can't see myself making out with a guy or making love. Just doesn't feel right to me. But this topic has me thinking,that's for sure.
You're a bottom. That's why you have no desire to fuck or get sucked, I am the same exact way.
Anyway, I agree that guys can be arroused by the sight of a thick, hard and long penis, but have no attraction to the rest of the man. It's almost like gay men who had meaningful relationships with women before they came out of the closet i.e. me. Women are very attractive, even their sihlouettes are beautiful; however, I would never even contemplate sleeping with one.
I used to be a regular here but haven't been around much lately. I'm so glad to see this topic as it encapsulates well my personal interests/fetishes. I'm married, love women, get totally hot by breasts (especially big firm ones), enjoy pussy, etc. Yet I have several very specific sexual interests that I explore online that get me rather hot.
Big cocks, huge cumshots, big round biceps and pecs (on both women and men), big breasts. My online activity is fairly equally spread among those, though muscular women trumps all. I have an oral fixation so I've often fantasized about blowing or stroking a guys cock - I just wish there was nobody attached to it. Yet I have less than zero desire to be blown by a guy. My wife has been trying to get me to try anal for years but I it rather gross and have no desire. I love kissing women and have no interest in going anywhere near a man's face. I don't find men arousing, though I do find certain bodyparts of men (see above) arousing. I have a self-suck fixation - I used to be able to reach when I was younger but no more.
So there it is - don't know what it means other than I'm probably 65/35 straight - and yes. My wife knows and she periodically worries I'll wake up one day and decide I'm gay. Personally I highly doubt it given my intense sexual desires for women, their breasts, their bodies and their minds. So I guess I just fit into that gray area of human sexuality.
I am so happy to find this thread on the internet. I have a girlfriend and have always been interested in relationships with girls. I have hooked up with tons of girls and always cocnsidered myself very straight. However, the type of porn I've been interested in for a long time has been things like cumshots and things of that nature. I enjoy pussy and I love fuckinig my girlfriend. I have, in the past experimented with anal stimulation while masturbating and have found it exciting, but not totally enjoyable. Recently I found myself in a very bizarre (for me) situation; I'm in college and one night I was with a friend of mine who is gay, we ended up in a bathroom and he convinced me to kiss him, and eventually he pushed me into a stall I didn't really enjoy it, though he did end upu sucking my cock (he was good but whatever). I didn't come because I was too shocked at what I was doing. I felt bad that I had led him on, and true, out of curiosity, I asked him if I could see his cock. It was rather large, and as I am only ~7", I was impressed and admittedly turned on. Ever since then I have had constant conflicting thoughts as to my orientation. I LOVE girls, and I always find myself looking at them and trying to have sex with them, but at the same time, with my girlfriend, typically if I'm not sober, I think about men's cocks, sometimes even penetrating me. It turns me on as a fantasy, but thinking about actually doing it is gross to me. I love watching cumshot and giant cock porn (I've masturbated to John Holmes many a time). I just don't know what to think. Do I just appreciate the sexuality of another cock? One that's bigger than mine? I love thinking about fucking my girlfriend with a larger cock (because she said her boyfriends were bigger than me, though we do have even better sex - according to her). I just don't know what to think...what do you guys think? There's nothing wrong with loving cock if you can have a perfectly fine sexual relationship with a girl, no? Sorry for rambling...!!!
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