cocksucking men who don't bother to ejaculate

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i've experienced several married men and/or closeted bisexual men who have sucked my dick to completion but didn't cum themselves.

they have rock hard erections and they appear to be thrilled to be sucking my dick. that's all they're interested in actually. but once i shoot, it's over. they dress and leave without cumming.

it seems unusual to me. i can't imagine going thru all that effort and not reaching the ultimate sexual goal - ejaculation. their dick is hard while sucking mine - why not rub one out?
 

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I guess I am one of those guys too.
This is recently all new to me and I live to watch guys cum.
I seem to crave cum in my throat and really for the most part don't need to get off.
Just new to this in last 5 years, and enjoy my partners time and pleasuring him.
Still into pussy more, guess that is the bottom line.
 

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possible fullpak, but i happen to know that a few of these guy are def capable of
cumming.

i guess they're satisfied just making me cum. strange - but we all have different needs :tongue:
 
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I have a married friend I see periodically and basically the same thing happens - a lot of effort goes into his pleasing me (including getting me off), but he's resistant to the same for him. The one time I did get him off (and we've been playing for years), he seemed to get a little angry. We're very friendly and affectionate, but it's almost always I cum and he's ready to roll. I have often wondered if that's part of the story he tells himself to justify "cheating" - If he doesn't cum, it's not really sex. Just some dime store psychology on my part probably.
 

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Cumming usually ends the eroticism of the act. Once you cum, you go cold and think 'What did I just do?'. Of course this doesn't happen if the two people actually love/like each other, but for most cases of anonymous sex or NSA sex, this seems to be true.

This is why, if I'm fooling around with a guy just for fun, I make sure not to ejaculate. That way, the experience remains fun. If I cum, I can't wait to get out of there. And then I alsofeel bad about being a jerk.
 

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I have a married friend I see periodically and basically the same thing happens - a lot of effort goes into his pleasing me (including getting me off), but he's resistant to the same for him. The one time I did get him off (and we've been playing for years), he seemed to get a little angry. We're very friendly and affectionate, but it's almost always I cum and he's ready to roll. I have often wondered if that's part of the story he tells himself to justify "cheating" - If he doesn't cum, it's not really sex. Just some dime store psychology on my part probably.

Somehow, if he doesn't have an orgasm then he is not actually having gay sex or any sex at all. I'm sure that there are lots of people like that.
 
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i guess they're satisfied just making me cum.

I've definitely been in that situation with a few people. I wasn't unwilling to stroke out a load by any means, I just didn't need to. There have also been situations where I didn't feel any need to shoot until I started idly playing with my cock and suddenly realized that I really wanted to after all.
 
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there was one guy i was seeing for a time. i would suck him off all the time but he would never do anything to even help me cum -- would hardly even touch me, and did not once touch my cock. it actually sort of pissed me off. he probably needs a boyfriend like the guys described in the op.
 

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Somehow, if he doesn't have an orgasm then he is not actually having gay sex or any sex at all. I'm sure that there are lots of people like that.

This is my feeling... If they don't actually cum, they never actually had sex.. It's a justification, whether it's a rational one or not, it's how they see it..